I think most people can't understand the workings of an open marriage. So any sort of activity like that would make people assume that has to be the problem. I'm guessing it was something else entirely.

margaret cho and her husband seem to have found a good balance.

I've never seen this movie (I have no excuse for this) but this Troy guy sounds like the kind of shit boyfriend/hook-up that someone would post about in GroupThink and a bunch of us would try to carefully write sensitive replies with the subtext of "BUT SERIOUSLY, HE IS A DICK AND YOU CAN DO BETTER. OH MY GOD, WHAT…

I would love to watch him read about all of the things he didn't do.

Female Rebuttal, for my husband...

As a black woman with many, varied interests, I don't disagree in the slightest about black people being allowed to define ourselves however we want. But sitcoms are not meant to present real life. Part of The Fresh Prince premise was the juxtaposition of urban, hip Will and affluent, square Carlton. You see that in…

No day-ruining here, I was well aware of the PUA variety of douche-weasel who calculates his romantic gestures in cost-to-blowjob analysis.

Living deep in the bible-belt and being a 30-something, vagina-having, marriage-free, childless, world traveling, home owning, sex liking woman with no plans to change any of those things, I get the "why buy the cow" comment quite often.

Not particularly. Are you saying that if she buys into a marketplace theory of gender interaction, she must also buy into a marketplace theory of racial interaction, and by that standard she sold herself too cheaply by not trading on her "desirable" white skin and marrying a guy with less valuable black skin, so she…

"Sex is her resource. Sex in consensual relationships will happen when women want it to. So how do women decide to begin a sexual relationship? Pricing. Women have something of value that men want...badly, something men are actually willing to sacrifice for. So how much does sex cost for men? It might cost him nothing…

It was just for fun. Not a college course in dance history. :-)

​Dance historian, dance teacher, and child of the 80s here:

Nuts to Will, i expect better from ?uestlove.

Yeah, it was a little confusing. Also, was the Robot really a hip hop dance? It came out in the freaking 60s.

I think the purpose was more about being ridiculous and fun. Obviously the Carlton should have been earlier in there too....and it's totally not a hip hop dance.

But at least they didn't let us forget "the Carlton"!

I impregnated your mouth, girl
That’s when I knew you can be my spouse, girl

One might argue that sharting should be important to everyone.

Being more equal makes me less attractive for sexing?

I'm definitely not settling for 40% and all the lady-chores. Guess I'm having less sex.