Agreed. And your PETA analogy is spot on.

The March Madness and the scary stories at Halloween are truly the best. I’m worried this new staff will end them like Pissing Contest, which I sorely miss.

I just think you’re making a lot of assumptions beyond what the article said.However, I think it is next to impossible to not apply our own experiences onto other heresay situations. The main miscommunication here, it seems, is that she thought it was a date and he thought it was a hook-up with a groupie. Those two…

No, the first two things. Obviously. I can never understand what people get out of being willfully obtuse.

Has this really never happened to you in a one night stand situation?

You are remembering correctly, but a lot of the commenters and writers here never were very reasonable about this.

Yep. But it’s important that we be mad about anything and everything I guess. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

His work as been on this topic for his entire career. He wrote a book about it. The vilification of Ansari is ridiculous and I’m sick of it. Let’s not be so unyielding in our attempt to bring down every dude regardless of the situations. And I’m writing this from the perspective of someone who has been assaulted, been…

Ok. But I don’t think he knew. And once he did he immediately apologized. This is more a conversation about communication than about assault. We all need to be better about both checking in with our partners as well as verbally and behaviorally communicating when we wish to stop. No one is a mind reader. Further,…

He reached out to her like one day after that date, she told him she had felt abused, and he apologized and tried to make amends immediately. After the story came out he made a public apology. He shouldn’t be on this list.

Yeah, I have more of a problem with “Miss” since I am not a child and shouldn’t be classed separately from other adult women because I am not married. Further, such a distinction does not exist for men. But I wouldn’t yell at anyone about it, particularly not a child. I’d only bring it up in an appropriate situation…

It bugs me when men dye their hair and wax their chests and stuff because they do not have to do these things to be considered societally attractive, and when they do them, I start to fear they are making the bar even higher for me: a 50% gray 33yo who can barely be moved to shave her legs before going to a wedding.

Who hasn’t had imposter syndrome? I have it every time something good happens to me.

This explains it pretty well.

Tiddly-Winks! <3

Look at her face like a normal person. Do you only ever stare at women’s breasts? How does this simple answer not occur to you?

Flag it.

I dunno...I remember when I was living with my mom and the city was doing some sewer shit that went over by like 6 months and the inability to get to our house was so frustrating.

I think you misunderstood that comment. 19yos are not creating fashion. They are responding to fashion being created by fashion houses. 19yos are just choosing to wear nostalgia-inspired 90s stuff the same way I wore nostalgia-inspired 80s stuff when I was 19. I, too, looked stupid bc I was 19. 19yos are gonna do what…