Depends on the baby’s ass. My baby’s bottom reacts favorably to butt paste. My brother’s daughter’s butt likes the Aquaphor diaper cream. I think you will just need to experiment.

The carrier thing is ridiculous. I watched my grandmother carry all of her 10+ grandkids in a carrier that was essentially a rectangle of cloth and four cloth “arms”. Why would you possibly need a carrier that costs $100+? I bought one for $30.

I have a 3 month old. If your kid has gas, the Windi is a lifesaver. It’s the same company that makes the NoseFrida. Also, the Aden & Anais bamboo swaddles are so soft, light and airy.