You sound like you have an incredible body? Are all the boys in your town taking stupid pills?

From a random internet stranger whose advice and biases you have no incentive to trust but I’m gonna say it anyway:

Oh my god, that sounds just awful. I’m so sad that that happened to you. But I’m really pleased that you divorced him.

Wtf? Who has been telling you this? And why???????

But then...I can’t help but imagine that attractive people will keep writing about how they’re unattractive and we’ll keep saying ‘hey s/he’s gorgeous!’ and one day someone will write it who actually most people do find unattractive and I just see this tumbleweed moment...

I totally get that there’s nothing you can do about not being attracted to someone, they could be Beyonce and they just might not float your boat. However, she is objectively nowhere near the plain person she seems to think she is. Thinking of her as beautiful, especially when in love with her, I can’t see it being a…

Roald Dahl on beauty

Dick move. He should have let you go to find someone who wants to bang you on every surface in sight.

‘More’, absolutely, for sure. But ‘most’? If anyone has to do it ‘most’ it must become soul-destroying for them.

Also, he and Camilla were already in love. They had previous.

My bad then, that’s always how I’ve heard it discussed. I presume then that it’s down to the fact that the person she consented to sex with was not the person who had sex with her?

BACKWARDSLAND

This is why I think that the other key was that she was not penetrated with a penis.

Yeah, also she consented to sex with a penis, not penetration by a condom stuffed with socks.

I know! But, you know. Perp was female, so it’s seduction. Male would be rapist. </stupid>

Me too pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease although I’ve been degreyed on I Thee Dread so I got that going for me which is nice

Because the perpetrator was also female. If it was a male people would be baying for blood, I think.

I thought they were always friends but recently she was catfishing as someone else who she then purported to be in order to bang her friend?

I think it’s ‘fraudulent sex’ (or, rape) if the person is penetrated with something they did not consent to being penetrated with. So for a trans male, post op, that’s actually his penis. It’s permanent. It’s permanently attached to him. There’s no need to disclose that he wasn’t born with it because it is still a…

Exactly.