I used to, not douche, but wash everything outside the actual vaginal opening (labia minora and majora) with shower gel or shampoo or something. I started smelling weird after a couple of hours and was really prone to bacterial vaginosis. My friend convinced me to use nothing but water inside the ‘valley’ of the labia…

Exact same with Portuguese and Polish housemates! Crazy Europeans.

I figure when you take into account the average wedding costs, the massive upheaval of life to make it ‘official’ when you could just BE together, and the probability that you’ll lose money in a divorce, the tax incentives don’t really make sense. If it’s for citizenship or similar I definitely get it, but otherwise,…

‘That’s more or less what David Foster Wallace was getting at in his famous commencement speech’

Ultimately, this is the only logical reason to get married, and IMO it’s a crappy reason.

This is incredibly affecting. Poor, poor Violet.

*petty theft

Wait, was he saying that Bush sucked, during foreplay?Because maybe you just misunderstood...

Gaps are really in at the moment aren’t they?

Holy f’ing crap, you. win.

‘You’re no JLo, but you’ll do’

Can you please explain that? I have never understood that phrase.

This is exactly the part that bothers me. If she’s just hanging out, smoking while not operating heavy machinery, then of course it’s a better call to help her out. But if she’s driving then she’s endangering the lives of other people, and this could have ended a lot worse.

But aren’t the consequences of driving while stoned potentially killing someone?

Exactly, I think that if you’re convinced that they’re cheating to the point that you’re thinking about snooping on them, then the moment that that becomes a serious consideration is the moment when you should cut and run. Either they are, and it’s over, or they’re not, but for whatever reason you can’t trust them.

Give a dog a bad name and hang it and all that.

Absolutely feel you vis a vis both fear and ideological opposition. Which is kind of a bummer, because there’s no real thing I can do to show I’m in a committed relationship (when/if that eventually happens), makes me almost (but then again definitely not) reconsider.

Ladies first? Really?

Needs more stars.

Aw. Tearing up. :’) Thanks. I’ve finally realised that being too tired to run is not a crime, I’m just too tired and running shouldn’t be a punishment for my self-perceived laziness. But when I wake up early and feel well-rested (so after at least nine hours of sleep) and run up the giant hill behind my house and then…