Should we teach our kids to be careful around strangers? Or just let them do whatever we want because people shouldn't be kidnapping and molesting kids anyway? The kids shouldn't have to change their behavior. It's not their fault. It's up to people not to kidnap and molest.

What is so unreasonable about suggesting that it might be a good idea for women to avoid risky or dangerous situations? No ones blaming women for getting raped. Rather, they're suggesting that maybe its not such a good idea to get blackout drunk around a bunch of strangers.