I am assuming this is a rhetorical question. She was never okay and once she decided that she was going to be a caricature of black womanhood to win a white audience she was dead to me. Whitney should’ve followed up on that threat and beat her ass back in 94,

Things that are a waste of my time:

This does seem like biting the hand that feeds considering how big a part of her fanbase “the gays” supposedly are. But anybody who laughs and cheers along with her catty judgements about other people’s lives every other day has no business getting upset when the heel is on the other foot.

Maybe her ratings are getting low or she’s auditioning for some minstrel show on Fox News or something. 🤷🏾‍♂️

“What can I say? Affirmative action...”

Who approved this kid, he’s not even clever.

The remark occurred during a Hispanic heritage assembly

This is a great start. Thanks, Terrell.

Last night the 11 y.o. said to the 9 y.o. “Shut up or I’ll fuck you in the ass”. Dad went over to demand he apologize, the 11 y.o. said “He knows I didn’t mean it” so everything was “okay”.

No, it wasn’t, and while Dad may ID as bisexual, he sure as fuck is not doing the necessary work. 

Lead me to a grove of low hanging fruit and I’ll pick ‘em all day;)

I see what you did there. You get a star. If only I had more to give...

Knowing about the women in my family’s trauma taught me early rape was evil. When I was 11, I got to know a good friend who’s mother was also sexually assaulted so we were in agreement and supported each other in the idea that rape was not something to joke or think about. I think the culture of rape can be stopped, …

Snoop only apologized because he realized he can’t sell Tostitos and show up on The Ellen show and still act like an asshole.
The only thing that changed his mind was the potential hit to his wallet.

When I was 5, one of the big kids in the neighborhood abused me and told me if I told anyone he’d break all of my toys.

Martha Momma told Snoop to apologize, eh? That’s cool. Forgive but never forget, you fucked up, Calvin, you will need to work to re-claim that status you had in the community (for fucking what, I don’t know, y’all who worship troglodytes like him have your janky ass reasons, I guess).

I posted this to give insight into how early these ideas get internalized; that incident predated even my VERY progressive parents talking about good touch/bad touch!

I will consider it. I actually ran into her at a package store a couple of Christmases ago, she said hi and how are you and what are you up to, and I was both embarrassed at the amount of booze I had in my arms and remembering that the last time I laid eyes on her she (deservedly) slapped me hard in the face so I just…

I’m so sorry that you went through that. 

Obviously important to teach boys to ask for consent, but it is just as important to teach boys how to react when you do not get consent.

I was full grown before I realized how the games we played as kids fed into this thinking that we have free range over a woman’s body. FeministOnFire describes those supposedly harmless games that actually humiliated little girls and gave us boys the misguided feeling of power that leads to even worse behavior as we…