My sister, her partner, and I went out for Margarita Monday a while back. This sort of thing happened, and I was like ughhhhhh. They were both laughing like no big deal, we get this all the time. I wanted to cut people’s throats and they were dealing with it in their way by laughing and giving people the face. You…

I agree with you. My point was that it’s a bit much to say an open relationship isn’t a “real” relationship when you’re willing to make your own drastic revisions to what most people would consider an important part of a relationship. Like he’s being flexible with the definition on his own behalf, but won’t extend…

Not everything is specifically about you,you know? And I think the takeaway should rather be that if your partner did decide to opt out, it would be a completely valid reason to do so, because it’s an important aspect of the relationship. If he chooses to stay, it’s because it’s not the ONLY important aspect of a…

Whoa there, just because you aren’t made happy by the things she is talking about doesn’t mean she is attacking you. And if you don’t want people saying things about people that have a low sex drive maybe you shouldn’t slut shame anyone who was sexually active earlier than you chose to be.

The way to make that relationship work is to dump him. I mean:

-The only person making you feel like shit is yourself, the op’s comment has nothing to do with you.

I can see many things making you feel like shit in this situation, but I don’t think you’re being fair putting any of the blame on do the truffle shuffle’s comment. If your guy is cool with your situation, if he agrees that there are other things that matter (and I assume he is and does or he would not have stuck…

Look, I’ve had my fair share of issues about sex after I was raped. I totally get where you’re coming from and it’s fine, it’s normal, and maybe you’ll even embrace your sexuality eventually (or not! either is fine because OF COURSE your emotional health/overall well being trumps anyone’s “need” for sex!)

I’m sorry but your comment is ridiculous.

Look, I’m very sorry by what you’ve been through but nothing in my comment was meant to be insulting and, besides, I’m merely agreeing with the study’s conclusions. But sure, I’m the one to blame for doing nothing more than saying that the study pretty much confirms what I’ve always thought: that good sex is an…

that should read “and that the hornier of the couple should just stick around and put up with the other half’s dead or diminished libido and be happy because sex isn’t everything

How is a picture of lips with lipstick on them sexualized? There’s nothing sexual about that photo.

I wore burlap sack the other day and someone forced me to become a potato!

lab coat and dorky glasses means porno

I see schlubby white dudes wearing a Jersey, basketball shorts, and sneakers all the time...I’ve never seen anyone pull out a basketball and immediately try to back them down in the post....

Right? I’d like to see either of those guys force someone like Shaq to play.

One time, my friend’s brother’s cousin’s neighbor’s sister’s stepdaughter’s boyfriend was walking by a park wearing a baseball cap, and the next thing you know, he was captured, forced to play short stop for six months, and then won the World Series.

It's rampant in our society...forced basketball culture is a scourge on our culture. 😜

I am confused. Why would I force a person to play basketball with me if he/she was dressed like a basketball player? Does that happen? Forced basketballery?

“Get that mic out of my fucking face. Take the g-damned flowers off my lap. I’m going to wipe that stupid smile off your stupid fucking face. And if you talk to me like I’m a 3 year old for another second, I may see 111 but you won’t see tomorrow”