Yep, get that in writing. The “who gets what” part should be in a will, and in most states a handwritten will won’t do it. The burial wishes should be on a separate paper, preferably witnessed.

No. Your burial wishes should be separate from your will. The will may take ages to get opened and probated so you should not include how you want your body handled in your will.

idk, i think he’s becoming john travolta slash kesha and it’s freakin me out

Team Dog is forever!

I kind of agree with all of that but I keep coming back to the fact that no attorney has stepped forward with knowledge of a will.

ugh so late last night I learned that my boyfriend (OF THREE YEARS) has never seen this movie. Turns out there are SO many great children’s movies he hasn’t seen, so I made a list. He will watch all of them if I have to pry his eyes open:

i feel like 40 to 70 makes way more sense than 25 to 75...... you’ve barely lived at 25

I *love* that Jez has covered this. Harris Wofford is truly one of the great American treasures, and no one knows about him. He got JFK to pick up the phone and call Coretta Scott King and offer support while MLK was in jail, and probably contributed to him winning the election. He shaped the Peace Corps- which is…

A fifty year age difference is creepy. Everyone is tripping over themselves to be accepting because he chose to prey on a young man instead of a woman, but if he were marrying a woman everyone would be calling her a gold digger. I don't dig it.

Anyone who wants to diss this because of the age difference can take a flying fuck. Life is hard and if you find love and everyone’s a consenting adult, I say FUCK YEAH!

I think it strongly depends on personalities, probably - a particularly aware, connected 90 year old and 40 year old who is one of those people who has always seemed old, maybe. At this point my concern is would be less the emotional or intellectual differences than the physical - having a spouse that much older is…

Be happy, Harris and Matthew, and it sounds like your daughter is a peach!

It’s a little weird but who cares? And the fact that they’ve been together for 15 years kind of speaks to the fact that it isn’t just a boy toy situation.

This calls for a dancing gif.

Y’all, go make a will. Now. Even if your assets are minimal or just bunch of books and shoes. In many states you just need to write it on your own and simply take it to a bank to have it notarized for free. You will save your loved ones, friends or family, lots of headaches.

Given the complexity of his estate (especially the unreleased music in the vault) and considering how invested he was in various charities and with the JWs, I would be really surprised that Prince wouldn’t have drawn up a will. That’s going to be a big mess for everyone involved...

This was a gorgeous piece of writing. I can definitely relate to a lot that’s here (huge Prince fan, lost my dad too early, etc.), but this part...

<3 I'm sorry for your loss, Maya.