Texan here too. I had a missed miscarriage as well. We found out at 10 weeks that the fetus had stopped developing at 6 weeks or so. My procedure was scheduled but I ended up passing most of it at home the night before the D&C and was able to be monitored closely to make sure I was not at risk for infection without…

I am sorry that you and your wife (and families) had this experience but wanted to thank you for sharing it. I am thankful that you were both treated with respect. That’s the only way anyone facing that should be.

I live in West Texas and I too will apologize for the state. My husband’s family is from Portales. I was surprised to see it mentioned!