When the abuse at your job makes the army look like a safe space... I can’t even.

Maybe you are supposed to put all the gloves and socks on the cat, to restrain them, while you sleep naked?

My hypothesis was this: Jesus hung out with prostitutes, which means that he knew about birth control and abortion. He didn’t say anything against them, so he must have not had a problem with them. Jesus was prochoice.

Word. Plus internal policing a la The Handmaid’s Tale is a very, very real thing. A great many white women would and do sell you down the river at the first opportunity if it means not rocking the boat, or maintaining their own status, or “advancing” in some perceived way. They will hold on to the meager dole they…

I’ve had two exes who were emotionally abusive, controlling, and manipulative. Treated me like absolute crap behind closed doors, but charming in public. Every time I’d wake up and break things off they’d wait like three weeks, send self deprecating “I’ve been crying” messages, and smooth talk/gaslight their way back…

Also — the status of “married” can provide a sense of false security — in that the guy is married, and what I think is happening (sexual harassment) is not actually happening because why would a happily married man do this? Furthermore, a good out for him— why would anyone believe the young intern vs. the married…

It’s got to be narcissism, right? With maybe a streak of the frequently co-morbid antisocial personality disorder, or vice versa. These dudes have no empathy, seemingly no understanding of their actions, and no remorse. Put ‘em together and what do you got? A very nasty personality cocktail.

It’s interesting that people like lauer and Weinstein have such problems with anger. I know it’s a power bully control thing but they must be disturbed people. Even with all that money and adulation it’s never enough. Same with trump. I would hate to live like that.

It’s because they are all about projection. They lie, therefore they are convinced we lie too.

A hard-fought game of Purse Speed Chess followed...

Obviously, I couldn’t arrive on campus one day and rebuild it all from the ground up.

I particularly enjoyed this little gem there:

This is as dumb as the people who told me they came to my school because “Well, I wanted to go to a Big 10 school.”

From the very first line - “Why would someone from Milwaukee, Wisconsin come all the way down to Missouri for college?” - I was extremely skeptical of this post. A better headline would have been “I Am Not Getting the Recognition for Going Here That I Deserve.”

Are you underestimating the significance of daring to journey from Wisconsin ALL THE WAY to Missouri?

Because you love drama and it makes for an easy substitute for having an actual personality.

Silverman doesn’t specify whether she’d known about the allegations before Louis C.K. confirmed them.

My dad refused and refuses to change a diaper. A diaper. Not a nuclear bomb.

And it was a hideously inappropriate thing to say about ANYONE, let alone a minor. It doesn’t matter if a person is closeted or wears a Lesbian Avenger tee shirt every day, public speculation about their sexuality is gross and wrong.

There is something so viscerally offensive about the phrase “flappy pussy”. Although, as it turns out, almost everything about men in Hollywood is proving to be viscerally offensive.