You can’t care for them in place of them caring for themselves.
It may sound harsh, but after a decade it may be time to cut your losses. Being co-dependent in a relationship makes you focus so much on them that you are all but forgotten about. You need time alone to heal from your co-dependency & perhaps have a shot…

Micheal Beck, the producer for her show whom they developed a really close bond with, was the producer for this season of RHOA (for the first time).

the Lou Reed clinic for talented asshole woman haters?

You can absolutely do both. Both a 401K and a regular IRA are pre tax contributions (i.e. you don’t pay tax on the money you put in). This is important b/c the money then grows also tax free and that can make a big difference of a long period of time. Highly recommend you max out your 401K every year if possible,…

Absolutely no advice but a hug from a woman who lost her father before he could teach her the finance game and wishes she had listened more when he was Alive. You will figure it all out in good time. I’d recommend speaking to a few successful adults you respect and pick their brains about how they irhanize their…

Invest your IRA in Vanguard ETFs. I recommend VWO and VSS.

Check with your bank/broker - a lot of times they can give you some good advice. I worked for Principal Financial for a little while in my 20s and based on what several people suggested, I had most of my 401(k) invested in money market and mutuals, with about 15% actually in the stock market. That way, while I may not…

GUYS. Are you seeing the Scott Baio drama unfolding on Twitter?? Nicole Eggert is tweeting that he started assaulting her when she was 14.

I remember when Glee was still a thing, and there were always gossipy stories and blind items about the cast really hating Lea Michele because she like didn’t party with them and shit. Looking back, can you really blame her? With assholes like Salling and Rivera in the mix, I wouldn’t have wanted to be part of that…

Aw shit :( well I hope you come to a decision that works for you! If it’s any consolation, 22-25 were sort of like my teen existential crisis years all over again. It was a painful age. I’m only 27 now so take this with a grain of salt. But I definitely (mostly) recovered from my quarter life crisis and now only have…

Katya was robbed in All Stars 2.

Black kids get bullied online by white people about their names everyday. We don’t give a fuck. We use honorifics in a country that refused to address us as Mr. or Miss for centuries. The Jacksons have three generations of Prince. There’s a Queen and General in my family. Better than being named like barnyard animals…

Looking at Alexa makes me really sad because she has Alexander Skarsgard and I never will. That I’ve been married for 8 yrs is besides the point..

Like Allison Williams and her husband-twin?

Brag thread! What’s a super cool thing you have accomplished recently?

“You can’t sit with us!”

“I did it for the economy. We needed a change.”

Why is everything so far away? I shouldn’t have watched season 3 of Grace and Frankie in one sitting.

Jon Snow - smoking hot

Just one episode then. A Very Hildi Christmas. I SHIP IT.