I think the easiest way to deal with this job is to imagine every one of those fuckers crying incessantly at a restaurant.

You know, I skimmed this and it seems well written and I'm sure it's good (can't really delve in because triggers) but that headline can GO FUCK ITSELF. My god, completely ridiculous.

At 43, you don't have a lot of time yourself if you want to have kids. There are risks associated with that. If you finally meet someone within a year and then wait a few years, you'll be in your late forties. A lot of the women I know would be reluctant to have kids with a guy in his mid-late forties. He just…

I'd also be interested to see stats on the burden of care on single daughters as opposed to married/in a relationship daughters. So much of our culture is still about women as caregivers above all, and it's easy for siblings, both male and female, who have already partnered up and have families and responsibilities of…

I think you & I are soul sisters, at least for our huge hats and obsession with protecting our skin. I have a pair of those Asian driving gloves that go all the way up your arms, and I wear them whenever I drive for more than 10 minutes. My friends laugh at me, and I always say "I'm allergic to wrinkles. Laugh now and…

I cannot agree with the statement that they should not be obligated to disclose. How can you put the onus onto someone who doesn't have all the facts disclosed to them? I agree that you should always use condoms for casual sex, but condoms are not perfect and if someone does not wish to take the risk of sleeping with…

I buy my undies in bulk from Maidenform. They have a black boyshort with a lace edge that I've probably been wearing for the last ten years. Every few months I buy a bunch. Comfy, and the only time I really get pantylines is in my yoga pants.

I know that this is supposed to be the "something good" thread, but I couldn't help but reply to this.

Okay kind of off topic with R&B but you must (maybe?) know "This is a Journey Into Bass" and "Lookout Weekend" and "When I Hear Music." Unless you are too young . . .

YES! SFl girl here!!!

Uh did you listen to Power 96/DJ Laz? Were/are you from Miami?!

But, but Uncle Luke is definitely NOT a slow jam.

So with you on 90s R&B. Maybe it had some new jack swing to it, but I miss my 112, Blackstreet, Case & Joe, K-Ci & JoJo, Babyface, Az Yet, D'ANGELO, Ginuwine, pre-confession Usher, Musiq Soulchild, and that's not even talking about the women...

One day I was sitting on the bus behind a girl with headphones on with a guy started calling her "Blondie," and just generally telling her how he'd like to get to know her. He wasn't particularly crude about it, but it was clear his attention was unwelcome. But he kept trying, and she kept replying in monosyllables…

I was wondering if anyone was ever going to bring this up.

you got some brassballs jezebel posting an article decrying an older more experienced woman of color being replaced by a younger white blonde considering you just passed over the very talented dodai Stewart (black, experienced, pushing 40) for 25 year blonde white Emma charmichael.

Me either. I mean America is great and all, but not so great that I don't hate the inconsiderate dicks who shoot off fireworks until 2 or 3 in the morning. I get it Cletus, you're celebratin' Murica, but can you not be an asshole about it?

See!! #NotAllChristians

Exactly. I have no kids but I want to have them one day and I told my husband that I'm going back to work soon after having kids like my mom did. That is just the way I see things because she did it that way. Having a working mom made me think of myself as equally capable and more importantly equally entitled as any…

Maybe your dad looks back and regrets that now, but they've done studies where men don't feel guilt for working long hours when women do. They see providing for their families as their familial duty and therefore don't feel guilty being away from their family.