A lot (most?) bisexual folks don’t subscribe to a binarizing definition like that, and instead define bisexuality as “attracted to my gender and other genders.”

Everyone knows feminism is about policing women’s public representation of themselves, right?

Same. It’s a good catch-all. I can’t be bothered / we shouldn’t be expected to describe the intricacies of who we want to bone tbh.

As someone who has really struggled with the label “bisexual” but happily identifies as queer, the phrase,“when i really jus be walking around thinking ERRYBODY FINE.” really rings true to me.

She specifically mentions queer men and trans “people”. I really doubt she’s as concerned with their genitals as you think. Queer just means not straight in the most generalized of senses. Clearly to Kehlani it means not bisexual either. So ... let’s just accept that and stop thinking about the private parts of the…

Those who are attracted across the spectrum usually don’t feel that bi fits them because bi = 2. Some people thus use the term bi+ or pansexual. Queer doesn’t necessarily mean being attracted to the spectrum of genders - it means whatever an individual wants it to mean, essentially. Even people who are monosexual…

4 comments in and 2 of them are already offended and correcting her self-identification through the lens of cis-heteronormativity.

“both primary genders”

I can’t imagine if I had grown up outside of a major metro area not being able to get my shrimp fries and pocky.

I strongly fucking agree, thank you.

Hahaha. Someone once brought potatoes and some kind of greens. My friend was like, what am I supposed to do with this? And then she did something fantastic with it. What a good sport.

Right? It’s obnoxious. Like the actual explanation was “I saw these beautiful <x vegetables> and thought it would be wonderful addition to the meal.

Because she’s been an activist since 2002 on subjects like LGBT rights and school equality, and activism is how a lot of people get into politics. I’d also argue that there’s a strong difference between agreeing w/her opinions, and her opinions being based in reality and the pursuit of justice rather than racist fear…

Counterpoint: I love flowers and if people brought flowers to my party I’d love them forever. Just bring whatever your host likes. Are they busy types without time to put flowers away? Bring a snack tray or something for the guests to take the heat off. Are they into plants? Bring flowers. Are they into booze? Bring a…

So I googled “women kills man for rejecting her” to see what sort of results I could find. Out of three pages (approximately 30 results - I got bored, by that point), I found ONE where a woman killed a man for trying to leave her (I would have preferred to find something a bit closer to the whole ‘killed for rejecting…

I had one guy hang around for two goddamn years before I finally blocked him. He seemed like a safe bet (terminal degree, secure job, well traveled) and we went on one date. I said no thanks for future dates and then he popped up every few months asking if I wanted to go to an orgy. Motherfucker, we haven’t talked in…

I’ve spoken with some dudes who were ghosted and it was readily clear why they were ghosted: they had dangerous levels of rage toward women. Sometimes ghosting is the only safe option.

Yes, OMG. I’ve never understood why people require a receipt of your gratitude after you’ve thanked them in person. It’s such a stupid concept.