It's used as a pejorative against little girls.

I think people are fed up that she gets chance after chance to turn her life around and never does. And she gets those chances because she's White, attractive and was once a Hollywood darling. We all know life isn't fair but sometimes you have a visceral reaction to the unfairness.

Exactly. For a lot of guys there is this huge gulf between how they treat a hook- up and how they treat someone they are dating. It's unnecessary. Just treat everyone with tact and respect. I won't think we're getting married because you treat me with consideration. I know this is primarily about sex, it's all good!…

I think it's definitely a gender thing. Women's pride is a bit more—-few women are comfortable with the last ditch, booty call role. For a lot of men, sex is sex. Doesn't matter if they were the woman's 5th choice or if they are being woken from slumber, or whatever.

If you wear a dress to your wedding ceremony it's a wedding dress. We're all adults here—-wear what you want.

You could be the hottest guy in the world and we had incredible sex just last week but, dude, don't text me at 2 am thinking I'm going to sprint over to sex you up. Ain't happening. You could have texted me waaaaaaay earlier and said: "Hey, if you're around later maybe we could get together?" That's A-OK. But the…

If I'm interested in dating a guy long-term I won't sleep with him for a while. If he's cute but not relationship material I'll sleep with him quickly.

Yes, he calls for sex because he thinks "Once open for sex, always open for sex!" It's so silly and annoying (the 2 am booty texts when I'm in deep REM sleep).

Well...I assume you would know since you brought it up? I have no idea what those words mean. Everyone can make references that other peopled won't get. It doesn't make you smart or interesting.

Is that a person? Cartoon character? Type of food?

Depends on what you're looking for. My friends and I fear becoming the "it's last call at the bar, haven't found anyone to go home with so I'll text so-and-so" girl. I literally sleep with my ringer off because I have two idiots who think I'm down for sexy-time with them at 2 am after not communicating with them for…

She models.

I teach computers, not English where I could assign essays, sadly. But one of my girls started taking guitar lessons (inspired by TS, of course) and her friends filmed her plucking away on some song I don't recognize and it's so cute! They put the video of her playing on her FB page and she's getting so much support…

Whew! Glad you finally get it. I'm not sure what was so confusing that it took you an entire day for reading comprehension to kick in. I'm convinced that you hit the sauce/bong pipe early in the day (no shame, we've all been there!).

Let me be as clear as I possibly can be: I AM A FAN OF TAYLOR SWIFT'S. I THOUGHT YOUR CRITICISM OF HER WAS PETTY, SMALL-MINDED, AND UNNECESSARY.

Yes, I am a fan. Ummm...isn't that what this ENTIRE discussion has been about? That I am a fan and you are not? You are just grasping what this conversation has been about NOW??

Yes, I am a fan of TS's. And I did find it petty and unnecessary to criticize her the way you did. Which is exactly what I stated over and over again in my comments.

You made a comment on a very popular blog about a very popular public figure. I questioned your choice to critique this particular young woman. If that leads you to believe that you were "severely attacked" than so be it. But perhaps, if you are so sensitive, commenting on such a popular blog about such a popular…

I have never called myself a feminist so it stands to reason that I would never call anyone else a good feminist, a so-so feminist, an ok feminist, "meh" feminist, or a bad feminist. It's not a term I am comfortable with as it's a term and movement that has a painful history of excluding and marginalizing women who…

You seem to have me confused with another commentator. I've literally never used that phrase in my 34 years on the Earth.