I just got shouted down by some FB friend of friend (dude) who was offended that I was offended by him making jokes about this whole issue. Seriously. How dare I have an opinion that makes someone feel uncomfortable about their own privilege? Tsk. Tsk.

He seems like a delight.

Her?

I like how the closest close-up is on the white one that you can see her nipples through. Keepin it classy AA.

I totally agree. I thought it was in bad taste the first time and now this... Ugh. I'm a feminist and I love Jezebel, but things like this just aren't funny and give this site, and feminism a bad name. Even worse, Hamm's been a decent ally. Why are we treating him like this? It wouldn't be excusable if he was a crass…

Likely a lot of the people responding have experienced sexual violence and assault. Condemning and punishing people for their abhorrent actions is absolutely necessary, yet we can’t act like ‘taking out the trash’ will actually solve the whole problem. These guys don’t exist in a vacuum, they exist in a rape culture.…

Rock the beret!

Piss yourself as well and you have a recipe for rape prevention! http://jezebel.com/5985902/university-of-colorado-told-women-to-avoid-rape-by-peeing-vomiting-and-menstruating-on-command

Ugh, I didn’t need that. :(

Wow, that perfectly encapsulated how I feel about this.

Grad school?

I was learning about sex from sexy vampire fiction. I think I learned about cunnilingus in a book about vampires. This was 10-15 years before the current vampire craze. I guess I was a vampire hipster. Never wrote on the seats though.

I grew up rural and my bus driver actually phoned my parents to complain that I had a 'bad attitude.' What was I doing on the bus that got her so riled up? Reading. And probably not smiling.

All I’m vaguely hoping for is a nice, surprise booty call. And I am fine with that.

Much of the gendered oppression that men experience is directly related to the hegemonic patriarchal system in which we all live. Women tend to experience this to a greater degree than men, historically and currently. This acknowledges that not all people, women or men, experience privilege or oppression in the same…

No, I would say that you have little to no understanding of the general philosophy that is feminism. And I find it ironic that you deign to tell women that they have mislabeled the philosophy that is about their own oppression. Good job.

You don't understand what feminism is.

Gillian Anderson doppelganger?

No, I don’t think you’re exaggerating. There’s unfortunately a lot of WTF out there. I hope you get through this okay. I tend to agree with the other commenters that you’re likely better off weeding this asshole out, before he became your spouse. Not that that’s much solace to you right now. I hope you don’t have to…

It seems like serious control issues to tattoo your name across your girlfriend’s face. Particularly after such a short period of time together. All I’m sayin is, I hope she has a good support network there for her.