Thank you! So sweet. :) Unfortunately most of my critical thought towards this was preceded by a number of troubling sexual experiences and years of heavy porn use. I don’t have a blog. I just spend my free time contemplating the implications of media, especially media that reflects a disturbing predisposition toward…

It’s male ego, in a nutshell, and gender role reinforcement. If a woman - excuse me, “worthless cum whore” - gags on their dick, or better yet, vomits (which is a whole subgenre in and of itself), it gives them a surge of dominance, as dick size and the pain it causes is associated with masculinity.

Seriously. I recently read about an animated Japanese porn film that included an unconscious girl on a bench who was raped, had cum wiped in her hair, and thrown into a trash can. End film.

Whore is a term of contempt. Men aren’t called this except in the context of feminization play, which is in and of itself a testament to how women are viewed. It seems to me we associate the term with female sexuality so much it’s as if it helps some women have sex with fewer mental blocks. They can play the role of…

Simply because I’m curious what the response will be:

I simultaneously enjoy rough sex and am highly critical of porn and kink. It’s a struggle, but it’s the most intellectually honest way I can deal. I feel disturbed by the male propensity toward violence, including their sexual tastes. I’ve examined the phrase “like a whore” so many times. What does it suggest? If a…

“They just want to get off and then forget what they just saw. Not to mention most of them don’t even pay you for the porn you produced.”

So wait...they think those videos of women getting taken advantage of are real, and they still watch them?!

Yep. Dominance is a huge part of masculinity, and this trend of “choke on my dick till you tear up, bitch!” porn is ever-flourishing. “Now with vomit!” It’s disturbing to put it very, very lightly. I’ve been around the block, and the amount of men who have shoved their dicks down my throat when I was expecting to be…

He’s doing that because men are socialized to do that. Why would a man feel the need to be the one who takes care of problems? Because that’s an element of his masculinity. It’s the active role in contrast to the woman’s passive. Not a natural one. A socialized one. The “lady” thing is ridiculous - what exactly is a…

It’s not that they’re all rapists, but that it might take a certain type of guy to want to make a career out of getting hard from a woman’s tears, acts of resistance, and cries to stop: from what he said, a career he wanted since kindergarten. To be honest, it’s a bit disturbing a man could get aroused from signals of…