Any fool can make a baby. It takes a real man to actually raise one. I’ve went from being somewhat spiritual to actually bad-mouthing God because it is so not fair that women end up sacrificing the most when it comes to children. Way too much in my opinion. We pretty much give up our lives. Crazy.

You are smart. I was too until I met my son’s father who abused me, pushed me to have sex a lot even when I said no and repeatedly expressed how I didn’t want a child like he did. The beatings started right after He got me pregnant. It was my first relationship at 28, too bad I only blame myself for not finding a way…

No kidding. G, I wonder. If only people and society talked more honestly in this manner, it would save a lot of naive wemon a whole lot of grief as they are all told how awesome it is when it really is terrible and will leave a person with a lifetime of regrets. Not to mention what the children have to go through. You…