Meant to write having a good day.

As far as the Tom situation goes. Did you try talking to them about it? IF they didn’t understand that they shouldn’t do that to begin with and they didn’t know that it bothered you then how was he to know that he shouldn’t be doing that. If you laughed it off every time he did it he may have even thought that you…

Don’t talk on behalf of trans people. You can talk about your experience if you’re trans but do not talk on behalf of me. As a trans male I do not hear men say anything worse than what I have heard females say. I can not express this enough because I deal with it all the time. Do not speak on behalf of me.