I know headdresses are an always no because they’re actually the Native equivalent of a Purple Heart—i.e. only given to heroic war veterans. And for the rest I would say no unless you’re in a position to talk to the tribe in question and gain their input and blessing.

I’m getting the rectangle as well as the spaz. Time to refresh 5 times and then give up.

I currently make do with the Besame Cosmetics Travel Case , which is only sporadically available, but cost me $35 and I’ve already gotten its worth in compliments. Plus it’s the perfect size to hold comic books, which is 100% why I wanted to get a larger bag in the first place. The only bad thing is it’s hard-sided…

But it’s kind of like tearing out pages of the Bible. You can do that, but it won’t stop the bajillion other copies from existing, nor the structure that will ensure they stay in print (and thus preventing any especial rarity of good copies) for centuries to come. I do think it’s silly though, because definitely at…

My wedding plans are at least a year from even engagement and it’s already understood that we will be doing the ceremony in 10 minutes in the woods.

At the very least they DEFINITELY set out to get internet fame.

I’m a public goddamn youth services librarian and I’m crying looking at this. Fuck you emotional baggage regarding weddings and magical orphans.

UH-HUH.

I’m always a little bit sad that I live in the only part of Florida that is an actual hour away from the beach, but now I’m double sad :(

Look, just. Chill. Real people live in Florida, just like anywhere else, we have normal communities that do normal things and have normal entertainment. Miami isn’t automatically precluded from having good theater because some people in Florida have alligators for pets; nor are we all conservative dickbags just…

Exactly how it works. There’s so much remorse, and it’s so genuine...until you do that *one thing* again, and he simply can’t help but get mad at you again. And you should work to understand him better, he had a bad childhood.

The biggest takeaway I had from this was “oh, so the ‘insulting your vagina’ thing wasn’t just a thing my ex did.” I feel both nauseated and strangely relieved.

My boyfriend wants to wear shorts at our nuptials; I told him that as long as they cost more than, like, $10, that’d be fine. Conversely he is allowed to be supportive of whatever choice I make about my wedding dress.

We just buried my grandfather there in November, and my great-aunts down there visit regularly, so we keep an eye on it. :) If you pass by a “condo” that’s all Potters and Johnsons, that’s my family!

Same. My family’s all down in Key West, and you pay for your plot well in advance—and by plot, I mean “hole in a 3 by 6 cinderblock structure,” because that is the reality of having only one graveyard on an island that’s been host to European civilization for 200+ years.

I’m specifically not going to take on his last name because I am a white lady and most people assume his last name is pronounced “masser”.....

I’m really, really into this, tbh. My first, disastrous engagement was to somebody who really just wanted me to play out the white-picket fantasy with him, so I’m steadfastly against the whole traditional wedding thing now. The fact that I’m considering that sort of commitment again is amazing, but there’s no way in…

I mean PROBABLY

I’ve been playing my Pokemon Yellow recently. I expected some glitches, since it’s a 15 year old cartridge that I haven’t put any especial effort into...but I was not expecting every Pokemon to look like a cross between Missingno and Caterpie. Yet that is exactly, bafflingly, what has happened.

I know the difference is small, but I bet it’s 100% because men don’t have to shop as much and thus don’t have as good a sense for what the proper ratio of quality/price should be, and what constitutes a good deal.