I second this! Meds helped a ton but I’m off them cause i’m trying to get pregnant. Cognitive behavioral therapy rocks and has changed my life, it's hard work but worth it. Or meds, cause they work.

I feel for the kitchen staff not making much money, and I was a fine dining server for many years at restaurants where I DID make a lot of money. However, when the kitchen staff would bitch at us I would point out that most of them were working in the field they wanted to be in and building a resume and work history.…