When I saw her in July she said ‘This is a song about a man child’.

At least Phoebe Bridgers destroyed him on “Emotional Motionsickness” (my username namesake and one of my favorite songs). Here’s hoping he fades into the night as a fucking asshole who can’t even manage to make a girl cum.

I saw Phoebe Bridgers just last night and before playing Motion Sickness she said “this song is about the worst person in the world.”I knew he was a total scumbag to her but I didn’t realise he was such an abusive shithead. 

Completely not shocked by this at all, I’ve been told by musician friends that he’s a major asshole. I just hope this means Mandy Moore can move on and start making music again.

Slap a B in front of his name as the ultimate fuck you.

Yeah, Mr. Gilligan! Yeah, Netflix!

Lack of job security no matter what your experience or credentials.

go to a bar? i find it difficult to believe you can’t find a tavern or hotel bar that wouldn’t welcome a group who wants to just sit at a table and entertain themselves, as long as at least some of you are ordering something to drink or eat. other options might be places like a bowling alley or an all-night/24-hour…

I could be missing something, but none of that sounds like “hating men”.  It just sounds like hanging out with your female friends.  We should avoid giving credence to the “man-hating feminist” trope.  

“fries before guys”

I take it you’re not a Parks & Recreation fan? It was a pretty funny episode.

That first letter is absolutely me! My "roomie" and I are best friends and brothers that have known each other for over 20 years. We fulfill almost all aspects of a relationship except for the sex and physical intimacy. I would not be a live without him ( he is the rock) and his life would be much more boring without…

Odds of her having her cake and eating it too are 1-10,000,000,000. What happens when her partner wants to start a family or buy property or moves due to a job? She was dithering in the past in regards to living with her fiance! (side note, commitment issues or not, but a 5 year engagement is a horrible sign that…

I’m not sure I’d call this weird necessarily, though I’ve certainly never encountered it, but it seems like a real hurdle for any romantic relationship you’re pursuing seriously if you share a bank account with a friend. The number of issues this could cause are boggling my mind.

Honestly, the first letter sounds to me like the she’s just using her friendship as an out to keep herself from moving forward.

With regard to TOC -

From a couple reads and as a male, TOC fires off a bunch of red flags from dependence to potentially not being willing to take the actions necessary to be in a serious, committed relationship.

1. My soon-to-be-ex wanted a second chance. I told her no, not after what you did and said. However I feel kind of guilty about it. She has also gone back to bouncing aimlessly between job to job again and I feel sorry for her.

It’s also worth noting that this sort of relationship is actually a boon for you and your future lovers.

Spoiler boy: “I have met a woman who I am considering marrying. But I am personally inconvenienced because of a preference of hers that is just a question of respecting her boundaries. WHAT DO I DO!?”