When this all unfolded on Friday, I was celebrating my daughter's 13th birthday. I was so grateful to be where I was, in that place, with my smiling, happy child. And my heart broke for those families who will not be able to do the same. I'm crying. We can be better. We should be.

Not at all. I am a married man with three kids. If I have a minute to do something I want to do by myself, it never involves just a woman who is not my wife spending time alone with me. It just doesn’t happen. If my wife finds herself in a similar situation, she can do whatever she feels comfortable doing. Other than…

Married guy here. I don’t think we can even handle single people anymore…. Like I don’t give a fuck about drama…. In my head I’m like “Look if you like him just ask him out or if you don’t then just don’t, and fuck if you want, Jesus I don’t give a fuck” But in reality I have to sit there for sometimes HOURS listen to…

And people who think that “myself” is just a fancier version of “me.” I stop listening immediately.

I’m so, so sorry. Are you and your baby okay? Is your car okay?