You cut me to the core, Monique. Brilliantly put.

A man I know and care about sexually harassed me last Friday. I’m tired.

Ohhhh please let this asshole waste away for 20 years. Please let SOME good come out of the shit show that is America right now.

GODDAMMIT!!!

Misty isn’t even on that page!

It’s not your fault, but I’ve had that guilt, too. :(

Flagged him for harassment. Asshole.

That would make me so so so so so so so angry omg. NONE of my guy friends have reached out to me, and I haven’t decided if that’s good, bad, expected, or what.

Yeah, I dunno why I keep thinking it’s possible to be friends with men. It’s why I get so pissed off about the “friendzone”—I spent my adolescence with boys guilt tripping me about the friendzone when it isn’t even a thing.

After my divorce I thought I could be friends with men. I met some new men that I had no interest in dating but seemed cool, but it turns out they all just want to fuck me. Even one of the “good ones” that really seemed trustworthy. It’s all bullshit. Also dating sucks.

Logically I know it’s not my fault. But there’s a lot of ingrained behavior that needs unlearning as well... Things I automatically excuse and things that aren’t “worth” making a big deal about. It’s amazing to watch it all happen. This is a wonderful (if very long) take on the whole picture: ““It’s an absolutely…

Thank you <3

Robin Williams is the best tho <3

Fucking everyone loves him. I don’t get it. Sometimes he gives good advice but god I’ve never liked him.

Are you suggesting by saying “no” I’m not doing enough to say “no”?

No, but I would believe that he raped her.

It’s so fucked up. I’ve spent so much mental and emotional energy wondering if I just give off a “here’s a girl who won’t say no” vibe, whatever the fuck that means, because I do say no and they either don’t believe it or it just doesn’t process or something.

It’s so true...

Thank you so much for mentioning Dan Savage. I thought I was the only one who felt that way.