Agreed! I don’t have much to add, but it’s funny you should mention the caterpillar thing... I do similar things (when I find a spider in the apartment I cup it with my hands and take it outside to a bush instead of squishing it) and my current girlfriend told me things like that were part of the reason she liked me…

I’ve been in a situation very similar to the guy in this article and I really feel for him. I never once thought of my ex-girlfriend as an abuser until I FINALLY got out of the relationship and took a long hard look back. She did a lot of the same things this guy’s girl did like moving the relationship way too fast,…