This. This this this this this. At age 5 I HAD to decide what my hobbies were to be. This or that instrument. This or that sport. This or that craft or social group. I WAS FIVE, how the hell would I know what I like unless I try different thing. I went path of least resistance, and ended up hating every hobby I…

Holy cats, do I understand being the child of a mother who put all her energies into nursing family. Mine spent my entire childhood, adolescence and early adulthood nursing one family member after another - her grandparents, parents, and in laws. In the brief respites, she spent her time (and still does) Munchausing…