This story is so terrible and I really feel for her. And obviously I feel for the child being put in the middle of this.

Well, she actually enjoys tracking the toys down, so it's not entirely selfless. But yeah, it is one of the things I like most about my mom.

I had seriously never thought about that as a possibility...I hope that didn't happen! :(

Whenever there is a hot toy, my mom goes and stands in line at 3 in the morning so that she can get a bunch of them to donate to Toys for Tots, because she thinks those kids deserve the hot toys too. She loved the "thrill of the chase" when we were little and she keeps doing it even though my sister and I are nearing…

If you're trying to make a point about the sexualization of women in music videos, why would you...sexualize women in a music video? Wouldn't it have been more interesting and made her point a lot better if she had had half naked men twerking? Or even a few men being sexualized in the video? Instead she just didn't…

Important question! I am going to get my hair highlighted today, and am bringing a picture of Connie Britton as the color I want. Right now my hair is sort of dirty blonde. My natural color is light brownish. Can I get that reddish blonde color with highlights alone? I don't want single process color and I don't want…

I feel pretty certain that since I posted that about BB, someone is going to come along and deliberately spoil it for me in the comments. Which will be OK and I will kind of deserve, since it's now been like a month since it ended. :)

That's true, and another commenter pointed out to me that a vague headline would not allow people to find the article through searching, which I didn't think about while I was having my rage stroke.

In my moment of silly rage I didn't even think about search engine traffic, and that totally makes sense. I just kind of looked at the apology and felt like, if you knew it was a spoiler, why did you do it, since people who had watched the episode already would have still clicked?

OK, maybe half-assed is the wrong word, and I appreciate that you guys apologized for it. But I don't get why, if you realize that the headline spoils it for people, you felt it necessary to include it in the headline. Everyone who's watched the show would know what scene you were talking about and would be able to…

Seriously, how fucking hard would it be to say "Last night's scene on Scandal" or "Talking about THAT scene on Scandal" and not ruin it for people considering that it aired less than 24 hours ago? A half-assed apology at the end of the article doesn't really make up for the fact that I came to read Jezebel and got the…

WHAT IS SHE WEARING ON HER FEET? I cannot deal.

There is one white girl who gets her ass motioned at with money. There are several instances throughout the video of black girls getting their asses smacked, having champagne poured over their ass and breasts, and fellating champagne bottles. And in one of the scenes Lily herself smacks a black woman's ass and…

I'm saying close-ups on their asses being smacked and champagne being poured over their breasts is not dancing. There are many ways that Lily Allen could have made a point about these women being objectified, but what she did was objectify them herself, which doesn't really say much of anything. She's a while woman,…

Sure, having them in pantsuits but twerking would probably be a good way to point out the ridiculousness of objectifying women's bodies that way. Or even just having them wear the same outfit as Lily.

The problem isn't having backup dancers. It's objectifying them, and having only one sex of dancer. Here's a very old example, Britney's "Slave For You."

Haha I'm not sure - one gathering data for a social experiment about men who value the lives of their cats over their girlfriends?

That is exciting, though to be honest I don't get why either side spends time drafting and passing these bills that are guaranteed to fail in the House / Senate. Is it just so they can tell their constituents that they did it?

I once asked him "If an armed robber was holding me and the cat at gunpoint, and said you had to pick one of us to die, who would you pick?"

Biochemistry. Ugh.