Ah and this story: I was a bridesmaid for my friend about 2 years ago and her sister ended up leaving the party willingly. But I have no doubt she would have been asked to leave anyway.

I'm sorry to say I had to let a bridesmaid go. Actually, I'm not sorry at all...it was the right thing to do for both my wedding and my life. She and I had been growing apart for a long time, mostly based on her terrible choices in men. It would have been something people could look the other way on, but she had this…