Sure, I really don't think we're actually in disagreement on anything, people askde why no 'ed and I gave the answer. Mine is also grammatically sound as you agree.

My usage of gayed and lesbianed was to demonstrate not necessarily grammatically (though there again I am grammatically sound) but socially why the 'ed…

Yep sure but it's not really changing the facts about the word it's pretty easy to look up and honestly the ed is just a cherry on top of this "apology" and that's why here I'm less inclined to give benefit.

EDIT: oops nevermind.

Rights aren't won by being nice :)

ALso what's up for debate here exactly? Whether trans women are really women?

Gender might me a verb but transgender is an adjective so my point that it is like Gay stands so thus you don't say gayed and you don't say transgendered.

Wow 20 years ago? Make that a super big hug, a fist bump, a high five and tea

Ah whatver fuck em. It looks amazing.

Trans Women are allowed to have torsos?

Using it once fine even correct. Using it twice in 2 quick sentences, red flag.

It's a classic move when someone thinks trans women are men but doesn't want to show that belief outright.

You realize that was their apology right?

So do trans women we have all the same fucking vulnerabilities as you and then some. I've seen this argument before and it always ends up really excluding trans women from being considered women. Before surgery I wasn't just worried about being groped at a bar I was worried about being groped and outed as trans.

No see Donna it goes both ways, she doesn't want trans women to see her torso because that upsets her she also doesn't want to see trans women's torsos because that upsets her.

Oh I'm so sorry that I called you what you are. Referring to a trans woman as a biological male is transphobic. There's no debate here. You legit said trans women should be put somewhere else because you and your husband (again why your husband fucking counts in this scenario is beyond me but as a trans woman let me…

I think Kastle's point was more around the question of whether it's a mandatory separation. It might be lovely for many but condescending to others. I hope they aren't forced into that other dressing room.

I think you cracked it Trans Women are world class grifters!

Seriously in times like this thank god for snark.

God I wish I could hug and high five that sale person!

But in all seriousness I'm sad it turns out you aren't some burner troll and have an actual posting background because that means you are being genuine and just flat out grossly transphobic

It's just weird like I said you wouldn't say gayed or lesbianed so why would you say transgendered. It's not a verb so yeah.

No worries :)