You really just do not get it. I hope for your own sake meybe someday you will.

There’s a WORLD of difference between a couple deciding to roll the dice and one person unilaterally making that decision without their partner’s permission.

I need that thing where Whoopi Goldberg is saying, “Molly, you in danger, girl”. This is...disturbing and not okay. I was literally just shaking my head and saying no beginning with “WE” decided to all have children together and have not stopped yet. Also, he repeatedly films her without her knowledge? Is this a thing…

Then baby girl, why are you commenting on this article?

This relationship screams problematic

Like, I can’t fucking believe that some people in here excusing his behavior. Taking away someone’s reproductive choices is fucking gross, no matter who does it.

Not really the point. Of course she could have gotten another pack (though that’s not necessarily easy), or insisted on condoms, or used female condoms, or just not had sex, etc etc etc. He obviously wasn’t trying to be sneaky, he did it right in front of her. Point is it’s controlling behavior.

“Oh yeah, when you threw you all my birth control pills! That was also presumptuous.”

.Maybe she could have. Maybe she didn’t have the money for the ticket. Maybe she has stockholm syndrome. Maybe doing it in front of other people normalized it for her. She was drunk so any consent she gave was possibly not valid (she doesn’t remember the video.) She was in another country when this happened. Do you…

So, while yes, it’s not like she wouldn’t notice that there was no pill to take, it wouldn’t be super easy to just get a new pack. Insurance companies and pharmacies can be super strict about how often they’ll let you get refills. There are a lot of hoops to having them replaced. It’s not sneaky.

And that he did it in front of their friends—that’s an abuser’s tactic too. It makes it that much harder to say no when there are other people who’ll probably take the abuser’s side. Fuuuuuck him.

Like I already wasn’t in enough of a table-flipping mood. Friendly reminder, messing with someone else ‘s birth control is abuse!!!

In the dick.

This isn’t cute, or sweet, or charming... it is straight up gross, and if I were her I would’ve been out of there immediately. This will be a great story (and lesson) for their daughter... “Well see, honey, I decided that mommy didn’t deserve her body autonomy anymore, so I made the unilateral decision to invade her…

Maybe she was a little worried about what a controlling psycho would do if denied sex.

This is the opposite of funny or cute

What the fuck?! This story is enraging. He is disgusting.

Reproductive abuse, girl. GTFO now.

Some pretty classic abusive partner stuff.

RUN GIRL RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN