Omg that’s so awful, worse than I was imagining. 

You’re welcome! :)

Also per your other point about Justin being so rich but trying to look like he lives in a trailer, I think this is something quite common with rich people too, it’s a flex. They can take any edginess or coolness from street style but unlike actual poor people who dress that way, they won’t be judged…

It just dawned on me that Andy has subverted the my little gay accessory thing on an unprecedented level with the Real Housewives franchise. Collecting groups of straight women and making them drink and fight and run cancer scams for our viewing pleasure.

I am guessing Andy didn’t call it out* (?)

*can you imagine a world where rich white gay men stood up for everyone else in the LGBTQ community?

I haven’t watched the last season (I feel like the quality of RHOBH has been in freefall for a while now.) What was the joke (assuming you don’t mind repeating it)?

As a queer, I wish we could just banish these kind of people from Pride. Pride is a celebration and a protest not a fun little day out for straights who aren’t real allies. I also hate the whole “my little gay best friend” accessory certain straight women do popularised by Sex in the City in the 00's. They tend to be…

It really should though! I have seen some v convincing memes too. 

That is such a sweet thing to say, thanks! <3 

I’m so sorry that that happened to you. Some people are so fucking thick. Just know you are a *real* person and valid and awesome.

Jesus fucking Christ. And thank god she kept her nose. 

The title and format seems to suggest that despite *all* the plastic surgeries, etc, that still all but one woman would remain ugly ducklings. And what is even achieved by the competition format? All the unnecessary, irresponsible plastic surgery seems like enough drama in itself. 

SMA was def a guilty pleasure of mine but it still irked me because so much of it was “hey stop dressing like a goth! you look like a freak! put on this generic dress and natural make up. And look random dudes want to snog or marry you now so we are objectively right.”

It actually kind of blows my mind that there was a…

Jesus Fucking Christ, how did that not end the show? That’s supposed to be the death knell for reality shows, when people start committing suicide or just dying. Though where I am, the UK, has a real blind spot about Love Island. For some reason no one cares about Love Islanders killing themselves (?!)

The whole “a panel of millionaires laugh at the poor and vulnerable” formula has always turned my stomach.

I think the phrase “no pain, no gain” was first popularised by Jane Fonda who quite famously had an eating disorder- so maybe not the best person to take advice from about how to approach exercise healthily. 

You are so, so right- and it’s horrible how many people won’t give themselves permission to enjoy sex, treat themselves to new clothes, start dating, go for a promotion, go on holiday etc. until they lose a certain amount of weight, and this a problem from the morbidly obese down to underweight individuals- and for…

Not enough people talk about the perverse way we as a society treat fatness as a moral issue and that’s not just interesting but also incredibly important for being healthy in the long term and not descending into the hellscape of eating disorders.

It’s such a dangerous maxim that can easily lead to injury and/or putting you off exercise for life.

Somehow Kendall Jenner got through my Kardashian Blocker and now I am reminded that she and the whole Klan exist.

I think a lot of us are not fans. She also seems like a bit of a bully.