Fun story: I thought about changing it but then decided that I really liked it. Made you really think about it :D

:D I really like it. I think that a really great way to get other people to be open is to be open and vulnerable yourself. If me being open about sexuality was ever a turn off to someone I dated, (I wouldn’t know) they did the fadeaway fairly quickly and it probably wasn’t meant to be. The people who hung around were…

haha agreed, but man it’s hard. women aren’t supposed to talk about their bodies, and trans folks aren’t supposed to have bodies that enjoy pleasure at all. It’s often hard to get to a place where you’re actively advocating for what you want because you don’t want to be demanding or complicated. Being on the other…

“covering your teeth with your lips” AKA GRANDMA LIPS which is my middle name

yaaaAaAas

1) No! :)
1A) No!
2) Yes!

Wait no for real though. Oral is fun but to be quite honest, it’s like third or fourth on my list of favorite sex acts. Movies are a terrible barometer. There are a few things that make me like “OMG YES DON’T STOP AAAAH” and they usually involve a riding crop and a large dildo so idk I don’t see…

Not that you asked for advice but ways to help

yeah that was a thing too with one of my longest relationships. it took about six months of being like no really but like what do you LIKE? and getting “well you know I just don’t believe in sexual scripts you can just like discover whatever by exploring” >_>_>

hahaha

Eh I don’t know that’s necessarily true. Sometimes your frenulum gets sore or you get a crick in your neck or whatever :)

Unhygenic or unkempt, like the genital equivalent of showing up to a board meeting in mustard-stained sweatpants with whiskey breath, instead of a more accurate metaphor of showing up to a board meeting with long hair or short hair.

Also, while this is not what I was saying at all, I find it weird that you ask about the consistency of dismissing a pube/not pube expectation while still promoting a clean/not clean expectation.

Well, so I don’t think you understand what I’m saying, actually. If you want to make trimming an expectation/preference/whatever for you, that’s on you. That’s why I said “doing things to one’s pubes is not a problem” and mentioned that if you have a preference, “do you, talk to your partner, do what’s best for all of…

Well if I literally ate them out for 40 minutes every time my tongue would be twice its current size. But yeah, that long! Even if we’re trying to get to sleep quickly or whatever, they really can’t go any faster. Which is fine! It’s just different for me since I can come in 10 but it’ll be a little baby climax, so…

Actually though this is something that I hate. Preferences in how you style your pubes/how other parties style their pubes is one thing, couching it in the language of “courtesy” or “cleanliness” or “grooming” is quite another. It’s not discourteous not to shave your face or armpits or less, or your pubes.

False, that part is right on target for me. I’m usually good with 3, but if we’ve got time and are feeling ambitious, it’s not unusual to get to six. After the first one, the next ones come right after the other

Hahaha man that’s the worst. You get really excited, they get really excited, the more excited you get the more they lose control of what they’re doing, you try to wait it out to see if they’ll come back to the really good thing that you just said “don’t stop!” to, but they don’t and it’s RIP lady boner.

As a lady who has been doing the cunnilingus thing for a while/does adult sexuality workshops, 20 minutes to climax is definitely a thing, anecdotally. It used to take me 45-mins-to-an-hour to make myself come, 20 minutes sounds right nowadays if I’m not having SSRI equivalent of whiskey dick. My current partner takes…

Both are right :) he did not grow up in polygamy, but converted in his 20s AFTER his parents had made the switch and introduced the idea

Well she publishef what had been leaked and I read it and cried. I know it was a draft, but....