Why did I give him my click?

Okay, this looks amazing, as per usual. Can’t wait!

Haha, thanks!

Thank you! Yes, it has caused issues previously, even in friendships. It's an anxiety which is also related to my professional accomplishments and appearance. Being in this relationship has forced me to analyze myself - I have now found my main weakness, and am in the process of fixing it.

LW1 here!

Why would you get that idea? I said women ought to grow up or leave.

Both. Our hobbies shape our identities. And I think the thing is: if you discovered a guy you were dating was a weightlifter, would you insult him, belittle him, and tell him to change? Or would you say, "well, we have our differences!" and move on with grace?

Yup. I was gettin' busy with a guy and the Marilyn Manson version of "Kidnap the Sandy Claws" from The Nightmare Before Christmas came on. REALLY hard to keep a "sexy face" during that encounter.

Ah, geez, I have 3 modes:

Niiiiiiice. Keep it weird.

Confession: while I understand how that would be Not Cool IRL, if I was watching porn and that happened…yeah, that would be a bit hot.

I'm a frequent three-way-er too. I'm bi and I'm terribly indecisive, so I have a boyfriend and a girlfriend.

…with pleasure?

It's SO much fun. And not in the "ha ha look a man in a dress" but "damn that is one sexy man in a dress."

When I learned my boyfriend was a cross-dresser I was curious, and after a small adjustment period where I got used to seeing him in lacy underwear, I now find his cross-dressing a huge turn-on, and I even wish he did it more in public. He's just under 6 feet barefoot, so when he's in heels he's a vision.

There's at least one, right here

This is the article which made me finally join Disqus. So…yay?