Yeah... As a girl myself I have never understood why some of us choose to turn on each other in these instances instead of banding together to kick his ass...or to perpetrate other possible acts of mischief against him.

Samesies. Like I know my brothers are mansluts and I’m ok with that but were they doing this shit I would never let it go. Ever.

Nah but if I found out one of my brothers was doing this he would never live it down. Like never. Like thanksgiving would be me saying “I’m thankful my brother learned to keep his dick in his pants and stop sending pics of it to girls he doesn’t know on the Internet unsolicited...oh grandma you hadn’t heard about…

(Almost) everyone thinks they’re a good judge of character and not easily duped. When she tells these women that they obviously have poor judgement, their response is probably to lash out and shift blame to protect themselves. Admitting that their boyfriend is an asshole would be to admit that they’ve made some poor…

As a person who gets un wanted dick pics all the time, I think it’s perfectly acceptable to send these pics to parents....perhaps, if said parents did a better job of raising their child, I wouldn’t be bothered with these dicks.....

That doesn’t make me a selfish person so much as someone who simply does not believe she has the prerogative to blow up a marriage of several years

If I raise a son shitty and disgusting enough to sexually harass another woman online, god above, I pray that woman can contact me. That requires some SERIOUS ear twisting and haranguing. I'm responsible for this human existing in the world; I would want to stop any sexual harassment they were responsible for.

But it’s better than losing a friend by saying, “your husband tried repeatedly to get me to masturbate on camera or watch him to the same.”

It’s still the right thing to do. One day we’ll make this sisterhood thing work. I just send things with an “I’m sorry. I would want to know.”

For my part, just stumbling across a random dick isn’t even arousing at all (and often has exactly the opposite effect). I know I'm not unique in this regard, it's an opinion you see from a lot of women when this subject comes up. Context is important. It's like some men have this complete lack of empathy or ability…

If I found out my brother were doing this, I wouldn’t ignore it and shrug my shoulders. I’d inform my folks and then proceed to berate him something fierce.

Reason I left my ex husband was because a friend came forward like that. I believed her, and thanked her, asked for the divorce the next day, began hearing from a deluge of other friends he'd done it to them too, and went back to that first friend and thanked her again.

A lot of people don’t believe they’re son/daughter capable of being so gross, until they see proof :/

AGREED. No one is holding these sexual predators accountable!!! A mother will though.

I disagree. I think a lot of men actually don’t care that much about their wives or girlfriends (sad but true), but wouldn’t want their mother to know that they’re engaging in gross sexual harassment of a stranger. I think “telling on” a man to his mother is the ultimate way to get through to this kind of guy. Very…

I don’t see it that way. I would want to know if any of my relatives where sexually harassing women online so that I could stop any contact with them. Tolerance of misogyny is just as troubling as the act. I stopped speaking to my aunt and cousins after she tried get me to stop called out my cousin on his misogyny.…

I read this as the action of a woman who has been pushed to the breaking point. All bets are off after that. I would personally be tempted to go even further and post them publicly with identifying information. *She* doesn’t want these photos, either. Why should she be obligated to protect these dicks? (Word carefully…

As a mother I wouldn’t want to see it, but if any of my four boys did something like this I would surely wonder what the hell I did wrong. And the recipient sending me the proof of their misogynistic bullshit would not make me mad at her, but they would get the FULL weight of my shame in their ear (or text messages.)

I think it’s more of a way to shame or humiliate the men who send them, but I can agree that as a mother I wouldn’t want to see that. Maybe if she just told them what their sons were up to rather than sending a vulgar photo.,.

Leaving out the egregious line-crossing by these dudes for a moment and speaking purely aesthetically... is a cellphone-shot, context-free amateur dick pic even remotely attractive? I mean, I’m sure there are a few, but in general? Dicks- and I’m speaking as an owner of one- are fun and functional but deeply…