@jezebaby: Do you go to Howard? My sister is a freshman there too and she seems to be having the exact same problems there too. So much so she's telling me she's "washing her hands from dating" and she's not even 19 yet. But then there are many thing about Howard that aren't meeting expectations.

@Cimorene: Women have needs??!

@willwriteforfood: I honestly I don't know. I know there are jerks everywhere, but I just have it my mind that the dudes at my school are just a different caliber. I do plan on moving to New York for grad school. I have it in my mind that NYC will be my mecca. I pray I'm not wrong!

@clairedeloony: Oh how i hate the fauxgressives. They run rampant at my university. It's always: "What you're offended by my drunken racist/sexist comment?! It cool cuz I'm sooo down with you having abortions and being able to sit next me on buses!" blergh!

@joiful: Word. The way they looked at each other at the Inaugural Ball makes my heart melt and squee everytime.

I really don't want a lot in a potential mate either, but it seems even my modest standards are ridiculous. I just want a dude who's not an asshole can engage me in intelligent conversation and not view me as a evil feminist harpy. Sigh maybe I need to get out of SoCal?

@andBegorrah: But are you really prepared for that 3am phone call?

@belljarblues: And let's not forget taking all his clothes off with his teeth

@Vivelafat says Sweep the leg, Johnny.: Indeed and I'm going to make it happen.

@Zombie Ms. Skittles: This may be waaay off but I say its PSoul. She did say she wanted to move to England which is an island; although not tropical.

@labeled: *solemnly beats bongo drums in the background*

pornography makes you a slave I hope so. I didn't buy all this S&M gear for shits and giggles.

@nyc-caribbean-ragazza: Sigh I've asking that same damn question for over 8 years.

... whitest black boy? Oy vey some much is wrong with this quote I don't even know where to begin, but I'll wing it. First he is a man, albeit an really fucking douchey man, but a man none the less. Refering to grown black people in the diminutive makes you sound like a racist Holly. Secondly, white men don't have a…

What, no Olivia from The Cosby Show?!

Someone really ought to alert Anne Slowey and Lesley M. M. Blume that the haterade and hatertots their eating can't be good for their figures.

@Sputnik_Sweetheart: Hearted for the Santogold love...

@heywhat: Oh come come now. You could always meet the unassuming mover/trash man with a heart of gold à la every single Tyler Perry movie

@the glamwich: That being said, I have to round this out by saying thank you, the older I get to more I find people like me, I spent almost 20 years feeling like I was the only person on my wavelength, and every time I am reminded that I'm not, I feel a lot less alone...and that is a good feeling.

@madeofawesome: How else would he know that his life is out of luck... fool