For the guy who found his short lived soulmate on Tinder, I think he’s being unrealistic about his expectations. He already acknowledged that he was used to straight women being uncomfortable about the idea that he was having sex with transgendered women (gender dysphoria aside, people who are biologically male) so…

Yes, that’s exactly what is being said. Consider this minor “injustice” the closest you’ll ever come to really understanding what it’s like to be a black person. You can’t do something just because of the color of your skin.