No, every one of these examples is absolutely the worst-case scenario intended to incite fear and disgust for the childbirthing process. It may not have been directed towards me but it certainly shows a lot of insensitivity towards people in my position. It would be like telling a rape victim that people are going to…

Nothing like a good old Ad hominem attack on someone making realistic observations about at situation. You know what is SANE and RATIONAL? CAPS MAKING FUN OF SOMEONE'S UPBRINGING AND POTENTIAL LOVEABILITY BECAUSE THEY DISAGREE WITH YOUR WORLD VIEW.

1) Deadbeat parents: Only 25% of court-ordered child support is actually collected. I don't know what the person that 'worked for an attorney' is talking about, all an ex has to do is move across state lines and it becomes next to impossible to get support. So good luck paying that $200,000 on your own.

I don't understand why you got so hostile to the original poster. This list is pretty legit. Also, I think it is a little silly to dismiss #4 as simply "you will get fat" as if it is about fat-shaming. My family is full of women who were skinny and fit before kids, but after got large and were not used to the extra…

This is the truth, and anyone who tries to spin it any other way is deluding themselves. Thank you. I completely agree with these facts.

RE: #10, totally agree, and I wish more people considered this aspect of reproduction. With my severe migraines (severe enough to take a preventative anti-seizure med every day), 2 mood disorders, along with chronic neck problems, I KNOW I don't want the chance of passing this bag of fun to any future offspring…

You didn't really dispute anything that was said. You're just saying you don't care. Well, good for you, but you look like an asshole for responding this way.

I’m kind of shocked at the vitriol you’re getting here. Not to say that there isn’t benefits to being pregnant/having kids, but the world willing talk non-stop about these and the second you mention the potential downfalls you’re suddenly a bitch from hell. I find even admitting we don’t want children and have taken…

Wow. People got really mad at you!

Tracy: do you realize that perhaps this article should not have been titled "Ten Advantages to an Unplanned Pregnancy," but rather "Ten Advantages to an Unplanned Pregnancy Accessible Mostly to Thirtysomething White Married Financially Stable Upwardly Mobile Apparently Relatively Mentally Stable (see #4 - sorry, some…

THIS. All of this. I love my kids more than life itself. But most of this happened. And you can't even say, "oh, just watch my kids for a weekend, THEN you'll see how it REALLY is." Because the kid stuff is only part of it... Any idiot can make sure two kids don't die, but the constant money-hemmorhaging, laundry,…

I think if you're pregnant and decide to have an abortion, than go ahead and feel however you feel about it. However, if you choose to have the baby, you owe it to that child to consider it 'good news', because nobody deserves to enter the world as a 'mistake'.

Those people can eat a bag of dicks. With or without sriracha sauce.

He was asking for it. What did he expect when he opened his mouth on Fox News.

gee, just maybe because the girl was left in the freezing cold on her front porch, with anal and vaginal damage, the boy himself admitted having sex with her when she was incapable of consent, another 'friend' taped it (and probably shared it, but we don't really know that yet), their house was burned down, the mother…

Because false rape accustations are incredibly rare and incredibly damaging?

This is nothing but shitty. No wonder I stay away from the main page these days. Grow up.

Also I think it's interesting that the only comments that have been approved thus far are the ones that don't mention the glaring inconsistency of your site's supposed mission set against the fact that this "joke" 1. shames older women for trying to look younger, 2. shames all women for not looking fully made-up at…

What the fuck is this horse shit?

Uh... hilarious.