Sitting around playing deaf for fear of making things worse is what got us here collectively in the first place.

Husband, absolutely. But I think it’s possible for him to come back from it if he makes a sincere apology and we have conversation about what the fuck was wrong with him and I feel like he’s acknowledged it was super shitty. But if this is just how he is now then fuck him.

Thanks, to be honest at this point I’m more worried about him than mad. It’s so out of character I’m afraid there’s something else going on. Obviously he’s not going to be in my life for now, but I’m willing to work on things if he comes to me later with some sort of apology and acknowledges that he really crossed…

I’m not really ok with fucking his life up. What he said was awful, and we’re no longer ok. However, this was one incident. If down the road I get an apology and an acknowledgement that he knows he was awful then and possibly an explanation as to what the fuck was wrong with him that day, then I’m not ruling out…

I’m in awe of her, I don’t know how she does it. I would have launched into a 30 minute obscenity filled tirade after 5 minutes of that hearing.

Wow, thank you. Really. I actually almost deleted it twice after I posted it because I didn’t think anyone would bother. I’m honestly surprised it’s gotten a little reaction.

I am and yeah he’s pretty pissed off. I told him not to do anything, it’s not worth it.

Did I mention he’s married? Word is his wife is piiiiiiiissssed, she’s also a very good friend.

I just feel so bad for her. She doesn’t deserve this shit, she’s a badass and not enough people are willing to go from “Yeah but Trump is worse” to “You know what? Fuck it. The woman is brilliant, qualified, and experienced. I wish I could accomplish a fraction of what she has in the face of constant bullshit. We need…

If any of you are curious, here’s the link to the uber long Facebook post.

I’ve known him since high school. Over the years yes drifted farther and farther to the right but I didn’t really care because we never really talked politics much. I’ve never seen him act like this, it came out of nowhere .

I’ve got young kids, so it’s an easy way to keep my very spread out network of friends and family updated. It’s usually fine, I just roll my eyes and keep scrolling , but after watching people I thought were cool come out and defend that dumpster after the pussy grab tape I couldn’t ignore it anymore. It made me sad…

Yeah I mean my skin is pretty thick, I can take a lot and I know people use a certain amount of hyperbole on the Internet that’s not really an accurate measure of how they feel, but Jesus Christ, that was brutal and I almost cried.

So like, what color is it?

Shot. The man said shot. He wants her to die. And I will bet you $20 that if you ask him exactly why she deserves to be shot he won’t even know. That’s the infuriating part. They have no idea what crime to even accuse her of.

Here’s what stuck out for me.

False. Most cats are assholes.

How did they manage to not find anything? He literally has not shut up for longer than 5 minutes in like 20 years.

See with gwb I was in my early to mid 20s, married in 06 and just really focused on my little bubble and trying to get my life going. I was embarrassed by him, but I just didn’t care as much.

Yeah, I mean in the end this is a disaster for them, and hopefully gets the Democrats some real gains in Congress. I guess I just wish there was a less embarrassing way to bring it about. I’m ashamed of my country right now. We look just....stupid.