9/10. Very good.
9/10. Very good.
It’s really crazy to me when advocates do this because one of the biggest desires is to be heard and to have your experiences believed. So if a group tells you they don’t feel heard or included in your message, shouldn’t you listen and figure out how to make it better? Isn’t that exactly what you are asking of others?…
Sigh. So Lena Dunham's present to her bf is still.about.her. Awesome. Lessee if she tweets daily to remind him about his awesome present
I was particularly struck by the friend's comment, as if a woman having sex with a man — or any sexual technique in general — somehow is magically easy for her, requires no effort, thought, study or learning curve.
I love giving BJs for a lot of reasons. Pleasing my partner is one of those reasons. But I don't just…
I read this article and I'm like "people are seriously fucking overthinking this shit." I think this woman ought to "get started on the cat collection" not because she doesn't suck dick but because her attitudes toward sex and relationships are utterly self-centered and unwilling to give the same respect to an equal…
I mean, I have repeatedly made awful relationship decisions. I can count the number of partners who have made me orgasm on one hand (it's three - and two of those were one time things, I've only had one partner do it on the regular). I've continued those relationships for whatever reason and just figured it was my lot…
The author of the Vice article just seems very immature: Numerous relationship partners did not meet your requirements, but you continued the relationship every time? She has vowed to never give another person oral forever. Forever is a long time, girl.
I mean, I guess. But would you feel the same way about a man who refuses to go down on his wife/girlfriend?
This is what I think. My attitude has always been that if you're not comfortable with a particular sexual act or don't want to do it for any reason, that's fine, but don't expect your partner to reciprocate. So if a man doesn't want to go down on his girlfriend, fine, but he shouldn't expect her to go down on him in…
As a guy...these things are ugly as sin.
I lived on a street that was a thoroughfare between bars in a college area in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. At bar time, almost every night, I would hear a drunk girl yelling at her boyfriend. Every night of the week. Drunk girls on my steps, drunk dudes in my flower bed, drunk sobbing everywhere. It's triggering for me…
Most of my bosses were women, and again, if women are "socialized" to stab one another in the back because of this delusional evil patriarchy, I make no apologies. It is not left to me to take a salary cut because my colleagues are "penalized" for being assertive. Also my mother's income is in the top 1% of the…
Oh my gosh I have soo much to say- I work in Human Resources for the Health Authority and I have to agree with the findings of this study. However as someone who works in the operations (not policy!), I would argue this is kind of a non-story. The same barriers that prevent women from competing in other fields are at…
Business negotiations should be taught in high school and mandatory in undergrad programs. So tired of hearing that "reason."
You got your Freshmen, ROTC Guys, Preps, JV Jocks, Asian Nerds, Cool Asians, Varsity Jocks, Unfriendly Black Hotties, Girls Who Eat Their Feelings, Girls Who Don't Eat Anything, Desperate Wannabes, Burnouts, Sexually Active Band Geeks, The Greatest People You Will Ever Meet, and The Worst. Beware of The Plastics.
To our male oppressor/friends: We don't want to be sexualized by you, subjected to the male gaze, or ANY kind of sexual objectification, but STRIPPERS ARE LITERALLY THERE TO BE HOT AND ADMIRED LIKE OMG!!! Make sure you bring $40 too because strippers deserve mad respect.
Oh my goddess.
Trust me, I'm at heart a no-fun second-wave Dworkin-esque feminist and in my daytime hours I am liable to obsess over the problematic nature of ANY kind of sexual objectification.
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