I started work right after college in a college town. Right away I figured out that I don't have much in common with college students anymore. I feel alone as well. My friends are 10-15 years older than me and are buying houses and good cars and having kids. The one upside is that my references for new jobs are…

My parents would offer a roof and food as well but essentially I'll have failed if it comes to that. My working success is all up to me though.

I'm actually hoping to head to Seattle in the near future. I live in a major college town and there really aren't many successful post-college age women here. Most are married off or college students. A professional woman that's attractive has her choice here.

I think having wonder about this world is a good thing. It's actually downright responsible. But there are a lot of friends that are $100k+ in debt because they took out loans for spring break. Most are unemployed. You can have a balance. I try to explore things and go on road trips now that I have a newer car. But…

Admittedly I wouldn't have my shit together in NY. Mostly due to not knowing anyone from that area at all and the rent is like 5-6x higher then where I live now where the wage would only be 2x higher. It's a buyers market for women where I'm at. Any woman here with their shit together has their pick here for sure.

This actually raised my self-esteem. I'm male and have my shit together.

I'm not talking about you. I'm talking about all of the kids that have been bubble tested and told that they're going to be special and be anything they want to some day. This leads to indecision and flakiness. Also I left my last job because I was miserable. New job pays $10k less and is basically a lateral move. The…

Some of this is definitely about if you were entitled or not earlier in life. Working two jobs and paying for school on your own will make you grow up quick and how fast you become financially dependent (whether by choice or not) is a factor. I have no backup options if i am to fail. The risks are higher for me. I'm…

That should be easy enough then. Everyone I know has a college degree and lives on their own with their own vehicles. Housing sucks though because of college student loan debt. You seem reasonable!

Has a house: Do you mean owning or renting? It's extremely hard to buy for lots of people right now.

THANK YOU. Seriously, I'm not against kinky stuff either. But it's the same argument of "Well you should suck his dick. I bet you'd like it." If I said that on this bored I'd have all the jezzies screaming at me. It's a preference and I don't want to do it.

In the end the guy has got to want it. If not then respect that.

Tried it once. Didn't like it. If people want to then no big deal to me. I won't speak for anyone else but me.

I don't agree that the premise of the article though. There's supposed to be some injustice magically conquered? And it can only be done with penetration? Please.

As a straight guy, no. She can bring it up respectfully (and I'll politely decline) but there will be a very loud fight if a phallic object gets in me by surprise.

How timely for this article as well. These guys are freaking doormats. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/02/26/19-people-stuck-in-the-friend-zone_n_2760362.html?utm_hp_ref=comedy

While I'm not belittling your disorder it is not weed's fault for your addictive personality. I used to blame all sorts of people for myself drinking way too much. In the end it was ME that was the problem and I've corrected it before I got myself in trouble with the law or hurt someone physically, however I got in…

If I was already working from home I'd be very pissed and would want reasonable accommodation for the change. Especially if I was a new hire. With that said not all offices are created equal. In a university I used to work for, the programmers would work side-by-side with the help desk/call center. Understandably they…

I was facing a layoff.