As far as I’m concerned, “not all men” goes without saying. Requiring it be said lest the whiners have another excuse to whine is just an arbitrary hoop to jump through. If they’re going to whine anyway, they’re not going to treat you as a human being, no matter how many of their hoops you jump through.

Did you ever consider that the reason Heather got a call back and you didn’t is that you’re a self-absorbed myopic prick who’s so enamored of his own bullshit that he doesn’t realize how ridiculous he sounds?

Yup, sexism is a hell of a thing that women have to deal with. I am glad that we can agree that victimizing women is wrong and needs to be stopped.

Yeah, I know women who probably got their job more easily because they were women so I get what you are saying. I just don’t get how you can conclude from this that “women are their worse enemies.”. I wish.

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I guess we should ignore the experiences of women in male dominated fields, because speaking their minds apparently makes them victims.

Melanie, I am a white male working in tech. In my workplace, there are virtually no women (<10%). There are many days where I don’t speak to or even see a woman at work. I am not involved in hiring or promotions. Taken from this perspective, I hope you can see how there are many of us who have no influence on the…

Would you mind sending me your resume? I want to make sure we never hire you.