On here? I haven't seen that. I have no idea what people are doing on other sites. Also it's about sincerity. I never said they don't have love for each other. I just don't believe in love as a justification for selfish or unhealthy behavior.

Oh definitely. I mean even with the Kristen Stewart affair: That age difference was barely what half of this? A third? A fourth? And everyone was saying it wasn’t her fault that he had taken advatage of her etc. But when it’s a powerful rich guy with a much younger dude it’s okay?

Yes, it is solely based on the age difference, I was clear about that. I didn’t say that made it nonconsenual, you brought up consent. I think it’s weird and creepy that he would want a long term relationship with someone fifty years younger than him. It’s so selfish. Okay he loved him, but if he really love him he’d…

Never said it wasn’t consensual. That’s not my only criteria for a healthy relationship though. I’m honestly confused that so many people think consent and legality are the only things that matter.

Right and the point with Harold and Maude was that while they had genuine love for each other Harold needed to LIVE. Even if Maude hadn’t died I believe that she wouldn’t have wanted him to spend his youth on her. Why does “love” mean it's okay to do something so selfish?

I’m not sure? Your first statement is so ridiculously broad it could be applied to every type of relationship.

Yeah I read his essay but I couldn’t shake the feeling that he was glossing over the other issue by making it only about gender. Also I don’t believe in viewing it differently just because it’s a victory for LGBTQ acceptance. If this were my father wanting to marry a woman younger than me, or in the future, his…

I'm not doing anything to their lives. What are you talking about? This is a news story and I posted my opinion on a fifty year age difference. I'm not holding picket signs outside their wedding.

Oh my mistake. I didn't want to assume that you meant to be an asshole, but clearly that was your intention. How sad for you.

No thanks. I’d also prefer that you not refer to me as “hon” when attempting to correct my comment just because you don’t agree with it. It’s really condescending.

What? I'm on a blog offering my opinion. I think it's creepy and gross. Yeah they've been together for 15 years, you take that as proof of their stability I take it as proof that the younger dude has never had the chance to experience a balanced and healthy adult relationship. This is all he knows. I think it's…

And? That's still really young compared to a 70 year old. It's creepy, just cause it isn't illegal doesn't make it right.

I’m judging. It’s creepy. If my dad wanted to marry someone young enough to be his grand child I’d have an issue with it.

A fifty year age difference is creepy. Everyone is tripping over themselves to be accepting because he chose to prey on a young man instead of a woman, but if he were marrying a woman everyone would be calling her a gold digger. I don't dig it.

http://fox2now.com/2015/12/22/st-…

I have to disagree. It’s a big leap to go from legalizing marijuana to decriminalizing all drugs. Pot isn’t the same as meth or heroin. Coming from a child social services background, parents that are using hard drugs are unable to properly care for their children. Someone that sells meth belongs in jail. I don’t like…

Thank you! And yes you are boring me, thanks for being so perceptive! :)

You're welcome!

OH! He meant to be FUNNY! Well never mind then. Nothing to see here! Obviously all attempts at humor are protected from criticism. Thank God you came along to tell us all that!

That's actually not what I said.