Maybe the word is too powerful to permit explanation.

I'm with you. I heard it before Cam'ron, and I went to a very white college. Words change meaning; it's not appropriation.

See, this is confusing to me because we said “fuckboy” in college—I’m an Old, suuuper White and went to a very White school. We used it as one would use “donor”, “slam piece” or “dial-a-dick”. A fuckboy was someone you would do it with but who enjoyed no other place in your life or perhaps even your social circle. I…