I hate to say it but I questioned it too. Her nipple ring/shield thing was just SOOOO big! How comfortable could it be under clothing? Of course, if you kinky and like to feel sexy under your clothes while performing for the Super Bowl, far be it from me to deny you that agency. We’ll never really know...

I have to add my anecdotal two cents... The first guy might also benefit from taking a look at the women who aren’t painfully attractive. There is nothing wrong with playing in your league! I was a bit awkward when I was younger and blossomed in my mid to late twenties. What’s wrong with dating a girl who has a great…

I think it just might have more to do with where you grew up? I was in Atlanta and at the time, too young to start getting perms. Braids with beads were a useful protective style to wear in summer so my mom didn’t have to do my hair every day.

This is why I encourage anyone who has the ability to use what’s known as a non-profit hospital. If you have any kind of decent insurance, you’re out about $6,000 or a bit more for each day in the hospital including the birth. If you can’t pay it these kinds of hospitals write off your expenses for their own tax…

Not exactly “ballsy” as like, half the people I grew up around were rockin the style at that time (including my toddler self), but yes it’s such a beautiful look!

Well, where I live it rarely gets over 75 degrees so a lot of us take our dogs on errands or with us to work etc.. A quick stop at the store isn’t going to pose a problem. However, when it actually does get hot here there no way I’m bringing my dog along. It’s all about using common sense.

I’m pretty sure my white spouse would disagree with that statement. However, it is true that far more whites fear us than than will admit or have any fucking reason to. It’s social indoctrination, it’s built into the history of our nation. It’s fucking insane and wrong.

Was the officer in plain clothes? If so it doesn’t matter if the victim was brandishing. He would be legal in his use of self defense.

I have to disagree somewhat. I used to think like you, and I never saw myself as wanting to be a parent. Now at age 40 I find myself married and pregnant for the first and only time. It would be disingenuous for me to have ended the pregnancy. We make a decent amount of money, live in a less populous area with a…

I love Gabrielle Union and think she’s doing the best she can possibly do in this situation, however I find it telling that while she speaks about reading trial transcripts she doesn't admit to reading the messages that Parker sent the victim post assault. Were they included in the trial? If I'm wrong, I stand…

Yep. I think that is the part that will upset me the most. Even considering the twists at the end, I always loved that Art3mis' avatar was NOT skinny and gorgeous.

Especially when in the film, the rape is yet another moment for reflection on how it affects HIS character. Never her reaction, never her voice, only how it makes him feel.

I dunno... I don't actually think it's stupid what they are saying. I went through the same thought processes as an adolescent. My friends and I were precocious and intelligent and upset at the state of the world as we saw it. It pushed us to become politically involved... We were artists and thinkers and dreamers. I…

Thank you. The only time I could hear vocal issues was when she was bobbing up and down on the cycle. I thought the concept was a little wack as it lacked any kind of substance but the track is strictly a grindy dancehall lite pop song. Deep it ain’t.

So much this! I have family members who suffer from lupus. They burn viciously in the sun. What if someone has a legitimate medical condition?

Exactly. I had my wedding in a small Redwood Grove, with costumed guests and yeah it was geeky as hell. Didn't have to ruin the forest to have a good time.

So what does it mean when my husband likes more "feminist" types of porn than I do? I'm bisexual, leaning towards pansexual and I am into a far wider and weirder variety of porn than he will ever be. I also consider myself pretty damn healthy and well adjusted. People are different and porn will affect them in…

Once again, while you guys are enthusiastically promoting products like this it is super helpful to mention that it won’t work for those of us with dark skin.

Once again, while you guys are enthusiastically promoting products like this it is super helpful to mention that it…

In my experience it usually happens after the first or second time a girl actually asserts herself, or after she sees another friend do it. If the experience ends with the guy or guys overreacting negatively or even violently the girl starts to internalize the idea that she has to either maintain her niceness to avoid…

I suppose that legalese sometimes appears to be magic to them. You would think they might, I dunno... learn how it actually works?!