I see what you’re saying, but there are some people who are lucky to be able to work in a field that fulfills a “need” or a “drive” within them. My friend is a former ballerina, and made a huge lifestyle change to open a dance studio b/c it’s her passion. I finally (after 8 years of ick jobs) am in a job that connects…

I don’t see anything wrong with that. Some people go their entire lives and never figure out their true passion. There is no set process, or instruction manual for figuring out what you want to do and how to do it.