Ugh. If I ask a question and attempt to explore an issue I’m transphobic. Got it. You’re the only person in this thread to treat this conversation as an opportunity to label someone with a conversation killing pejorative for admitting they don’t have the answers. Well done.

I don’t know the situation but I think you are reading a lot into this. It sounds like a frustrated mom dealing with a major transition period in the relationship. The rest is just projection. Eta: and to add, young people also have to learn to have a relationship as an adult with their parents. It’s usually a mutual…