The moment the nurse asked if I wanted her to get a mirror was my one moment of clarity during pushing-clarity to look at her like she had 7 heads and say "noooohhhhhh."

I made the same choice. The way I saw it, I could watch the video and increase my anxiety twentyfold or I could not watch the video and eat ice cream instead. Ice cream is better than anxiety. Plus, it's gotta come out no matter what you do and I doubt anyone thinks back to a video they watched months ago while…

All she did was claim to breastfeed and if she did, it was short lived. Also, surgery. Lots of surgery.

That dress looks hella trashy and makes Ireland look like a worn out 45 year old from the neck down. Angel Haze is working a hard face in these pictures.

I read that and thought "what a bright kid and a wonderful support system for her sister" and then I also thought "Jesus, it's sad an 11 year old has to consider the possible actions of a rapist."

Hagrid?

Minaj made that video for the male gaze. You can certainly believe otherwise but I do not.

You're giving Minaj a lot more credit than she deserves here.

If the law provides for the contingency you want, maybe. If not, no. Judges do get some leeway when sentencing (not in all states) and do take into account a lot of circumstances but often, they are kept to a standard set by the state. If you're looking at jury involvement coupled with leeway in sentencing and a…

I think it can't hurt to learn who you are and what you want from a relationship before you marry someone. I think that's what OP was getting at. 19 is way too young to have a husband, a mister and a baby on the way.

It's actually 24 weeks. Of course, it depends on where you live and what level NICU your local hospitals have.

"Because of this, I tend to look at feminism as the advancement of women's rights above all else—"

Well, Kim and Kanye are nothing if not predictable, aren't they?

Yes but the question is whether or not those consequences are legal.

Yeah, I know. You've made your point more than once. I gave my opinion and even added a bit of personal rationale to it, you gave yours and I thought I made it pretty clear that if she could sell them, good for her but I find it silly. You don't. Right. Now that we've determined we can feel differently, we can…

I didn't sense bitterness. Just humor. Post baby isn't always pretty. I'd rather see someone write realistically about it than paint it as flowers and rainbows. There's a LOT of bad gas after birth. There just is. No sense in sugar coating it.

I'm not being obtuse. No need to throw insults. I'm having an opinion, just like you. For the purpose these are meant to serve, I find them silly. Happy panty shopping.

No, it's not. I wore maternity bras and underwear for less than a year of my life because eventually my boobs and my gut shrunk. I know that's a personal anecdote but I don't think I'm unusual in that regard. I wouldn't pay $55 for a bra I could wear for less than a year that I will very likely stretch and stain.…

I wouldn't pay whatever she's charging, which I doubt is small change, to leak milk and blood all over those but hey, more power to her if she can get some ladies to pony up.

You have it for breastfeeding and for supporting your injured vulva? Congratulations. You win, I guess?