Yeah, totally. How could a woman possibly respect an unselfish, unentitled man who attends to her sexual needs and gives her pleasure? Women need to be perpetually frustrated and dissatisfied in order to function!

That’s probably because his wife doesn’t yell out his name, and now we know why.

Saw him at coachella, he couldnt play more than 10 seconds of a song without yelling out his name and insisting that the crowd yell his name, and his sons name. One of the worst sets ive ever seen live

Yep straight to that man that makes a meal out of her......lmao

Never thought of him as Muslim. Always thought of him as a fat guy who thinks he’s not fat because he’s rich.

Actually never thought of him as Muslim primarily. Now I will think of him as a dude who probably hasn’t pleased a woman in years who happens to be a Muslim?

Who says most Americans haven’t met a Muslim and he’s the only one they know of? Most Americans in certain parts of the country, maybe. People know who Aziz Ansari, Mahershala Ali, and Muhammad Ali are. And there’s no way you don’t see Muslims all the time if you live in the New York, New Jersey, Philadelphia, or…

Huh. I never realized the guy was Muslim because he presents himself as a shitty musical act far more frequently.

If a man won’t let you sit on his face, then hes not marriage material.

If a man wants me to pleasure him orally then he better reciprocate. Life is too short to deal with anything less. Thats some major deal breaker shit for me, and I know for a fact that my man loves having this nana in his face

What a fool.

Gross. I’m so sick of men thinking this shit is acceptable.

Good point. Just gave this a star so folks will see this. The national hotline warns people immediately that anyone who is worried about their browser’s history should call instead. I’m not sure if the shelter list has incognito.

She rightfully thought that nothing would happen to him. So she took a settlement and hit him where it hurt. I doubt it was viewed as money over him being imprisoned, rather money over nothing happening to him at all. Add that to her fear that he would kill her if she was ever responsible if something did happen and…

Diana - I work at a DV shelter in VA so I’m throwing in my two cents. You may want to include whether your resources have a “incognito browsing” option or a way to auto-delete history. Otherwise even clicking on the links may be too risky for a survivor.

I appreciate you posting the info above and inviting everyone to post info for local organizations/shelters. I’m in Charlotte and am so glad this article was published. For help here, go to www.safealliance.org or contact the CRISIS HOT LINE at 704-332-2513 (24/7)

In Denver, SafeHouse Denver operates a 24-hour domestic violence crisis line at (303) 318-9989.

I get revictimizing the victim...she was paid to be quiet. Perhaps she feels some vindication that this story is coming to light without having to endure the nightmare of a trial? While horrifying to read on deadspin, I would hope this encourages more victims to come forward and take a stand.

Uh, no. There is a public right to know here.

Diana, I appreciate the hard work you put into assembling and writing this story.