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Just FYI: You don’t get interviewed by any investigators during the exam (at least in any of the states/hospitals I’ve worked in). The forensic nurse will take your statment, write it down word for word, and hand the kit off to uniformed officers (typically with ZERO sensitivity training), but there isn’t usually a…

We also need more people to stand up and say that rape kits are often a total farce, an intentionally psychologically re-traumatizing experience in many places basically designed to dissuade most victims from coming forward.

Not that this is helpful to your friend now, but private labs do exist where you can send hair samples or you can freeze your urine after an assault and have it subjected to a highly sensitive mass spec/gas chromotography test.

...Or for people that can’t handle killing a/their rapist, at least take away their weapons and disable them: gauge their eyes out (hard to pick victims when their blind!!!), remove their primary weapons (hands and penis), smash their feet and hands so that they never can grab or run again, take away some of their…

From my experience, I would say 4 hours is a very LOW estimate. As a hospital response advocate, I personally was often at the hospital for 6-10 hours, and that doesn’t include all the time the victim spent waiting before the forensic nurse and I arrived (separately).