Oh, fuck right off. Women have been fighting this fight forever; don’t fucking act like us venting is the same as idiots raping and killing us. Being nice to men doesn’t do shit, we’ve tried that tack. Change requires the so called ‘good men’ to actually get off their asses. How about you stop policing her and go tell…

There was a male intellectual who wrote a short piece on incels a little while ago after a bunch of them started harassing him online, and calling him a beta. He was like, “Wow. I just discovered this subculture. With it’s own dehumanizing language. Did anyone else know about this? This may be a problem.” And I had…

SAME. I mean, not exactly *rejected* because I generally don’t have the stones to proposition men myself, but I rarely get hit on and have never been in a relationship. I’m 24 and have been on 3 dates in my life, two of which were actually just meeting some guy on Tinder. I didn’t see either of them again (mutual- we…

I read an article last week where the author stated, “The American Dream is the most cruel thing that has ever happened to the white male. All his life he’s been taught that he just has to SHOW UP and he gets a beautiful wife, smart kids, a nice house and a decent job where everyone respects him. Women, people of…

I love how people are piling on you for making an ironic and obviously hyperbolic comment that you obviously don’t mean on a story where men actually have and are still killing women. Like, dudes, look at the harrowing facts of this real story about real people dying for male entitlement...and then harp on a chick who…

Yes, women are cruelly rejected all the time. In fact, if women want to exist in public they must deal with complete strangers saying they are ugly, fat, worthless animals on a regular basis. But to incels, this does not matter because women do not matter. We are chattel, and our rights and feelings literally do not…

Yes, Rebecca Solnit said women are viewed as “inherently empty” vessels. We have no internal life or existence outside of objects.

Unless you grew up with this, you’re not likely running off to join Team Liverwurst.

A male friend of mine recently got divorced and started dating again. He’s 40ish years old, a smart and thoughtful guy who really did get screwed over by his ex. However, I’ve been taken aback by how much he values looks when it comes to dating. Looking a certain way (standard American hot) is basically his #1…

Seriously. I thought these dudes were supposed to be smart. If you can’t get women to fuck you, maybe you should try being more fuckable.

I’m a strongly introverted awkward white male with nerdy tendencies. I got picked on in grade school. I’ve also never been “incel” because I’m funny and treat everyone else like…

After the Toronto attack I went down the rabbit hole of this stuff.

I keep trying to refine my definition, but what do you think of, “Incels are a group of men dedicated to proving that women are right not to want them.” I was thinking of just “a group of men dedicated to proving women right.” It’s succinct and snappy. People who go to incel discussions will realize what they are…

The very word “incel” itself and what it implies is unbelievably disgusting to me. You are NOT entitled to sex!! Write that on the board five million times until it gets through your head! Sex is a desire, not a need, and you will not wither up and die without it. And if it’s so goddamn important to you, go out and…

Thanks for finally posting about this. I’ve been waiting DAYS to see something, anything about the Toronto attack. I mean you barely touched on it and no mention of the victims who deserve to have their stories out there but at least this will start to open some more dialog.

Okay, I guess if you are struggling with severe mental illness and can’t figure out why you are not being viewed as successful in your society, it is a good idea to find a scapegoat - as any rational reasoning would be unbearable. But does it have to be women? Is it that it is viewed by our culture as a reasonable…

can we scrap ‘incel’ and call these nerds ‘drydicks’?

The incel ideology terrifies me. Because I’ve been that lonely guy, who was unable to date, who was a virgin until his 30s. I had terrible self esteem, and it took a lot of therapy and self improvement to get to a better place in my life. And believe me, there are so many people out there like me, who feel lonely and…

I endorse this message. I don’t get the snobbery or the ick factor around liverwurst, the richness is wonderful and filling. What do I know though, I like broccoli and sprouts. My grandma never treated any foods like they were something you were supposed to dislike, things like liverwurst or sprouts was just regular…

“Braunschweiger and mustard on rye?”

I grew up near a city in Canada that has a large German population and they have a meats company which provides deli meats everywhere. I grew up eating liverwurst and though generally my school lunch sandwiches were really boring, those liverwurst sandwiches were my favourite. I don’t like condiments much (and still…